A Friend Indeed

Luna's last waltz and what it means to be a best-friend band

There are very few bands that I consider my best friends. Some people I know have a lot of these bands, just as some people I know collect friends like antiques. I only have a few -- best-friend bands, that is -- and I'm glad that's the case. How many do you really need? And at what point do you have so many that you begin to take their collective existence in your life for granted?

Now one of my best-friend bands is dissolving our friendship, breaking up, pulling a round of farewell gigs and taking off for good. It's amicable; it makes sense; I'm not holding a grudge. But I am sad. And I'm in the mood to revel in memory for about 1,500 words, so ...

Luna. Luna, Luna, Luna. In terms of bands, Luna was my first kiss, my first broken bone, my first beer. Everyone has a band like this. Think about which is yours -- it's the Smiths, right? Yeah, Morrissey and his crew grabbed a lot of people that way. If it's not the Smiths, perhaps it's Fugazi or Sonic Youth or the Pixies, Radiohead or Nirvana, Black Flag or the Minutemen, Built to Spill or Death Cab for Cutie, the Clash or the Jam, the Replacements or Guided by Voices, or some band I've never heard of. My little sister is a sophomore in high school and any day now she's going to discover her first best-friend band; she may already have that band in her iPod and not even realize how important it will be to her one day.

"We danced by the light of the moon": Luna's Sean 
Eden, Dean Wareham, Britta Phillips, and Lee Wall.
Stefano Giovannini
"We danced by the light of the moon": Luna's Sean Eden, Dean Wareham, Britta Phillips, and Lee Wall.

BFBs are like that. It may take you three or four albums to realize you've found one, and not because those first few records are subpar, but because one of the key things about a BFB is that both of you grow together, your lives moving in new and different directions, and yet, in spite of the changes, which can be drastic, you somehow stay linked to each other. The are lots of bands whose first or second record I fawned over, but that, for various reasons -- I changed locales, or discovered a new genre of music, or just couldn't listen to the band's stuff anymore because it reminded me too much of an ex-girlfriend -- I lost track of. BFBs have a funny way of avoiding that fate.

Luna's first record was 1992's Lunapark, its second 1994's Bewitched. It was Bewitched that grabbed me. I was a sophomore in high school at the time and I was just beginning to discover that there existed this thing called "underground" music. (Thanks in large part to the Internet, kids are figuring this out a helluva lot sooner these days.) As I listened to, and fell in love with, Bewitched, I had no idea that it was made by four guys living in New York City; no idea that Dean Wareham, the heart and soul and voice and guitar of Luna, was originally from New Zealand, or that he had fronted one of the most important alternative rock bands of the '80s, Galaxie 500, a trio of dour East Villagers who were among the initial pioneers of the languid/fuzzy shoegazer sound canonized by My Bloody Valentine, among others. These things were lost on my 10th-grade self, but it didn't much matter. These musicians lived far away from my Orange County suburb, but their sound synced up perfectly with my high school years.

Bewitched opened with "California (All the Way)," whose four lapidary chords remain among the most crystalline sounds I've ever heard put to tape (you may remember the song from those old Calvin Klein CK One commercials). There was also the album's title track, which evokes, both then and now, the frustrations of adolescent love more plainly and tenderly than any John Hughes movie: "Do you see her face in a puddle at my feet?/ Yes I've been down, to kiss the street."

After Bewitched I moved backward and forward at the same time, picking up 1995's Penthouseas well as Lunapark and its precursor, the chill-inducing Slide EP, which featured covers of Beat Happening's "Indian Summer" and the Velvet Underground's "Ride Into the Sun." Luna has been harshly criticized as Velvet Underground Lite, but I didn't know who Lou Reed and John Cale were back then, so I freely wore my Discman out listening to "Ride Into the Sun" and everything else my favorite band put out, just as I imagine many younger fans do with the work of the Strokes today.

One of the inevitabilities of any friendship is that at some point one of you will screw up. Shallow friendships end there. Good ones stand a chance. The defining trait of a best friend, though, is that his love is unconditional, his capacity to forgive boundless. Just as I was beginning to understand the depth of our friendship, Luna screwed up. In 1997 there arrived Pup Tent, a flat and uninspired album that led to the band's being dropped from Elektra Records. Wareham's lyrics were becoming caricatures of themselves, like on the catchy but cloying "Bobby Peru": "S is for sorry/ For all that I did/ Now is the time to turn it all around." One of the most hazardous things about a great band releasing a mediocre record is that the act then feels compelled to perform the new songs at shows, which only serves to further piss off those of us who came to hear "California (All the Way)" and "Indian Summer."

Next Page »
My Voice Nation Help
San Francisco Concert Tickets

Concert Calendar

  • July
  • Tue
  • Wed
  • Thu
  • Fri
  • Sat
  • Sun
  • Mon
©2014 SF Weekly, LP, All rights reserved.