"I wanted my parents to notice that I was fucking baked as shit or drunk beyond belief at home," she says. "They just didn't notice."..."...her parents haven't tried to intervene." Bingo.
The only protection, attention and help you get - for anything - will have to be from yourself Samantha. Not from your folks, and not from these men. It's an illusion.
It's not all bad news though. The more you do for yourself, the less you need them.