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12/24/2011 9:05:00 PM
12/24/11
Dear Mr. Jamison and Eds,
Thank you for being true journalists, and for your investigative pieces in the past on the serious problems - alleged and substantiated - within the Family Law Industry. Not many reporters and publishers have the balls you all seem to have!
Well, it is almost 2012...
...and I wonder if the legislators are still watching - and ready to step in as indicated in your 3/23/11 article (published just a week after my child was abducted by Court and the last time I was able to see her).
I do not believe all judges and lawyers are "bad." Yet, I believe the greedy and collusive family law industrialists have puckered and circled their wagons somewhat while dusting off the cover on their good book... all, creating ways to exploit the Elkins report and just before its implementation on 1/ 1/12.
If you would like to check out our 'Poster Child' "ASSIGNED" family law judge Jack Halpin (retired in 1993, un-elected but still serving and openly abusing "3011 and best interests of children" at $12k per month on TOP of his FAT retirement!)... it could offer a salacious look at a judiciary-enabled, program-abuse-tidbit for readers (and hopefully mindful legislators).
If you are interested, please feel welcome to check out the forward and links, below... Happy Holidays.
With my best and appreciative regards,
Alan Ernesto Phillips
Redding, CA
(Shasta County)
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Subject: Long live CPPA and her fellow fighters!
Date: 12/24/11 11:54:15 AM
My dear fellows at California Protective Parents Association,
My name is Alan, and I am a fellow protective parent of an alienated and court/minion-abducted child...... They said, that because I was a father and "just a non-expert complainer..." that I should not expect anything from the court to help my kids cope and live healthy lives. I know, mine is but one of thousands in our state.
If you haven't seen the first video of my quest to help right some tragic wrongs, I wanted to forward the YouTube link of my short, no-budget video (with some BG of our dilemmas up here in isolated Shasta County). If you like, or feel it may help others, please, feel welcome to link and share it far and wide...
While I quickly produced it to help create an awareness, validate the feelings of saddened and wronged parents, it was to also include resources and links for coping and fighting... that little video shows some very brave parents and EXPERT-complainers, and is just a start. At first I thought I was all alone in my sense of professional victimization by the family law industry... without a voice.
In Solidarity, I am sending my warmest wishes to you, our fellows and all your dear ones (where ever they may be) this Christmastime,
Alan
Shasta County, CA.
Alan Ernesto Phillips (on Google)
http://www.youtube.com/user/althepal55?feature=mhee
https://plus.google.com/115902390478619061589/about
http://anewscafe.com/author/alan-ernesto-phillips/
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05/27/2011 4:20:00 AM
Check out http://www.thepubliccourt.com for more examples of material evidence of the corruption. It isn't just poor decisions over families, it is a matter of absolute corruption that Rules of Court that the Judicial Council creates are broken by the lower Courts, and by those who created the Rules in the first place! Michael Roddy voted on the creation of CRC 5.225 and NEVER brought it back to San Diego until the Public told him how to do his job — that the Rules were not being applied, the forms were not being filled out at all by the Evaluators and the Judges. This had gone on for years! They do nothing about those who have been denied due process of these gross violations. Totally corrupt! Read http://www.thepubliccourt.com to see. The Sacto and Marin Audits verify these facts.
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05/19/2011 12:12:00 PM
They don't need MORE MONEY. They are pulling in billions of dollars from federal title VI funding.
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Peazie1973 04/26/2011 7:59:00 PM
There is absolutely no system of checks and balances. There are mediators with agendas that play out their frustrations on the families with whom they work. The mediations sessions should be recorded and monitored. They have nobody holding them accountable for their behavior and decisions. The courts preach "best interest of the child". That is a buzz phrase. Their number one goal is to get a 50/50 agreement because it is what appears to be fair to all. They preach "frequent and continuous contact is ideal". Really? That may be true if both parents are ideal or even decent parents. If one parent is abusive, why would frequent and consistent contact with them be ideal? It's not. Yes, I ge that some people lie. Yes, it happens a lot. Then take the time to investigate. Look at the evidence. The mediators don't want to take the time and energy to make a reasonable recommendation. They dont want to listen or look at any evidence for fear they may have to actually recommend something other than the cookie cutter 50/50 arrangements they already have spelled out. They want to clear their caseloads. The judges want to clear their dockets. 50/50...NEXT! 50/50...NEXT!
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nf 04/16/2011 3:28:00 PM
I have experienced the Los Angeles Superior Court System (Family) and heard horror stories about
it thru various sources - their right, it's bad....The Judge was so biased and incompetent it was truly egregious to the child's best interests at hand. Judge C. even admitted in front of everyone he did not know the correct laws in this particuliar move-away case. He had also only been in the family legal system for 3 mos. - a formal civil land development Attorney. There is just something fundamentally wrong with this and certainly inimical to any child or parent.
Yes the Family Legal System desparately needs reform from the top to the bottom. But first, it needs to reform the egregiously antiquated laws to benefit both parents and especially the children.
nf
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Moderndaysaintjude 04/06/2011 8:04:00 PM
The problem is wide spread, only mentioning two Superior Courts of having problems is lame, the more Superior Courts that are audited, the more evidence will be uncovered, and by stalling and prolonging deadlines is more damage caused against innocent children and citizens(tax payers) as well stalling allows those in the Family Court system that have been and continue to commit crimes to off load the facts of wrong doing.
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nila 04/01/2011 10:12:00 PM
I agree with some of what you say, but 90% of contested custody cases are NOT involving domestic violence. Some of it is false alegations against- usually a father. Or it could be a tragic move away case. It also, could be one narcissitic parent that just wants full custody. This happens everyday and our corrupt Family Legal System allows it. Why, because they are biased, greedy and flat out incompetent. It starts at the top and filters down to the so called experts they put in charge of these egregious cases. And they all seem to overlook what is in the best interest of the child. Yes, they need a specially trained expert to monitor all these cases in and out of court. It is so sad that we can't even trust are own Judicial System to do the right thing. But first, there are desparately needed reforms by the legislation sooner rather than later. Politics come into play and they all have to protect their own - they don't care about the little people.
nila
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Never Give Up 03/30/2011 3:47:00 PM
This this very slick. Please explain what you have written in quotes:
"epidemic of false allegations going through the family courts, making it nearly impossible for real abuse to be taken seriously or properly resourced"
Real abuse? What is real abuse to you...could it be Parental Alienation?
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Count me out 03/28/2011 7:30:00 AM
I am sorry this has happened to you. Found some REAL interesting info looking up names you mentioned... if you come back, maybe read some of it....
If you want people to help, please organize in the information a little better (what county is, it, etc.) and not just in a rant, I found this exact text online so far in 4+++ places -- the first has with a beautiful photo of you and your kids:
(1) http://www (dot) rhodeislandvotes.org /forum /forums /t /2716 (dot) aspx
(2) "petition-com" site (with this same text, above) to have him removed as GAL ban-steven-colantuono-as-guardian-ad-litem-in-rhode-island-family-court/ and
(3) a "ripoff" report (with this exact same text). Would this be, then spam?
and, here --- I'm wondering if this is really the woman writing
(4) http://www.anchorrising.com/barnacles/012416print.html
The GAL
I sure can't follow this, but Steve Colutuono GAL makes him a really busy man (did he get to City Council in 2008?) see this site: stevecward1(dot)com press.php?id=2, very much the psychologist (with a law degree) and specializing on developmentally disabled people...
This rant (and spreading it) is not going to help you, especially when tangling with what looks like a very powerful attorney for your ex (see below). Chairman of the state Democratic Party!! Then (2010) running for Congress:
"Published : Saturday, 13 Feb 2010, 5:38 PM EST
PROVIDENCE, R.I. (AP) - The former chairman of Rhode Island's Democratic Party has announced he will run for Congress after Rep. Patrick Kennedy decided this week not to seek re-election. "
Who IS your ex, to get such an attorney?
This article says the attorney general was divorcing (amicably) in 2009
"Attorney General Lynch files for divorce
01:00 AM EDT on Thursday, July 30, 2009
PROVIDENCE –– Attorney General Patrick C. Lynch is seeking a divorce from his estranged wife.
Lynch and his wife, Christin P. Lynch, formally requested a divorce Wednesday in Providence County Family Court.
The divorce is amicable, said Patrick Lynch’s lawyer, John Lynch Sr., who is not related to the attorney general. The couple has been separated for about five years, he said."
Also in 2009, your ex's attorney, WILLIAM LYNCH aiming for a US Attorney post in RI:
"William Lynch eyes U.S. Attorney post in Rhode Island
01:00 AM EST on Wednesday, January 14, 2009
By Katherine Gregg
Journal State House Bureau
LYNCH
Democratic Party Chairman William Lynch is hoping to join his brother, Patrick — the state’s attorney general — in the top prosecutorial ranks.
Lynch, the party chairman, confirmed yesterday having sent the state’s senior U.S. senator, Jack Reed, a letter expressing his interest in becoming U.S. Attorney for Rhode Island, and getting a letter of recommendation from — of all people — state Republican Chairman Giovanni Cicione.
Cicione would not make his letter public but acknowledged sending it to Reed to convey that despite his current partisan role, he believes “Lynch is more than capable of being fair....Asked how Rhode Islanders should view the prospect of two brothers serving as the top state and federal prosecutors, (etc. etc.)
"Lynch said he was prompted to throw his name in after getting a call from “someone connected with the Obama soon-to-be administration,” whom he would not identify. The U.S. Attorney’s job is held by Robert Clark Corrente, a Bush-era nominee, who is expected to be replaced.
The brothers, from the storied Pawtucket Lynch family...."
CAUGHT (dt) NET / caught / lynch.htm has something to say about Patrick Lynch, pretty scathing and revealing./.. This website also has some legal advise for pro se people, very interesting. VERY very interesting on Patrick Lynch. YOu guys do need prayers over there...
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(for the rest of us: Ripoff reports showed up on almost all the court personnel involved. Whoever Donald Simeone is, anyone who gets Wm. Lynch for a divorce attorney has connections, and something isn't right with this whole picture, of writing this rant all over the internet.....)
PIPL COM (searching Donald Simeone, RI -- is pretty much all, same text.
Check it out -- it's "everywhere"
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Bdaypartiesri 03/28/2011 1:36:00 AM
Family Court is or was conducting divorce's in the back room chambers! Has this happened to you? Well it did to me, in December of 2009 by the Chief Judge Jeremiah Jr. Case no P2009 0061, Donald Simeone vs. Serena Simeone. At the time I didn't know what was going on, all I knew was my attorney John Lynch Sr. who got paid $15,000.00 by my mother to get my children and my half of a 7 year marriage to my e-x, rushed me into the back room chambers and conducted an illegal divorce that is suppose to be conducted in open court. It was all illegal and all conducted by politician and I'm sure they were all paid off very well. How long has this gone on? Open Court is open for a reason, so this very thing does not happen.My E-X Donald Simeone, his Attorney William Lynch (Attorney General Patrick Lynch's brother, of course), Guardian Ad Litem Steven A. Colantuono, my Attorney John Lynch Sr. and the Chief Judge Jeremiah Jr. all took part in this illegal divorce, throwing me the stay at home mother of 2 minor children (2 and 5 years old) out of the marital home. My ex Donald Simeone was awarded everything, The house, the cars, the Business; Scott's Garage, the IRA'S, the timeshares, the boat, the equity in the house, all the additions to the house, the retirement, all the marital assets, and even my personal assets, HE EVEN GOT THE CHILDREN! He works full time Monday through Saturday 8am to 6 pm, so my kids are either with the grandparents, babysitter's or girlfriend! HOW DOES THIS HAPPEN? FAMILY COURT? BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILDREN? I'm the stay at home, waiting for my kids, since my ex wanted a divorce now "i'm crazy"? This is all government misconduct! From a 7 year marriage, I got $3200.00 for a car, 10 1/2 months rent, 1 year of medical coverage and 1 hour a week with my children, and a bill for $97,000.00 from my Attorney John Lynch Sr. after I went to the disciplinary board on him, (of course they did nothing). WHY? Because I didn't have the money his family did to pay off the right people. My case is in the Supreme Court now, March 2011, I'm fighting for this wrong to be righted, I just want my half, what is rightfully mine, and of course my children. My children have Steven Colantuono "Guardian Ad Litem" and in 2 years he hasn't spoken to either of my two minor children's schools, or doctors (As of March 14, 2011). I have emails and tape recorded conversations that he has NOT spoken to the principal, teachers or Dr. First, and in the last 3 1/2 months hasn't even checked in to court supervised visitation, he couldn't even remember the last time he spoke to my children, 7 and 4 years old. In supervised visitation my daughter has said "their dad doesn't spend any time with them, their also with the grandparents, babysitter or girlfriend, their dad has told their grandmother that their better off with out their mother"! No one from the Family Court does anything about this, NOT EVEN Judge John McCann. Who's protecting these Children? I have done nothing wrong to my children but love them. They even want me to pay child support, that's crazy right? I haven't had a job since 2003. Well this is all true and it happened to me, lets hope it doesn't happen to you. If it did please contact me. I'm sure this has gone on for many, many years and I'm going to make damn sure they don't get away with it. Please pray for me and my children and pray the Supreme Court obeys the law, unlike the Rhode Island Family Court. Interesting to note....Chief Judge Jeremiah also did Patrick Lynch's (previous Attorney General, my ex's attorney brother) divorce, and my Attorney John Lynch Sr. was also his attorney, HOW CHARMING! You know that was also done in the backroom too?
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PACKERVICTIM 03/27/2011 8:47:00 PM
Instead of being push they need to be shoved! It is at a crisis point where to many have been getting away with anything and everything under the umbrellas of "judicial immunity" this really needs to be examined and reformed since absolute power corrupts and that is what we are dealing with.
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PACKERVICTIM 03/27/2011 8:13:00 PM
I have been to my representatives and Senators over the years and they simply reply when I show them they evidence in my case that they do not get into Family Law. Nor do they seem to care if laws are being broken. Please do an article on the corruption in the State Bar. There is no regulation of these attorney's (minors counsel included) who keep the system going and the judges (who were former family law attorneys) who let them. Every is pointing fingers and saying there is a problem but from what I have found out everyone says its not my problem. The whole system needs to be exposed and thank you Peter Jamison for tackling it. Which is not easy to do in given you have only so much editorial space. But it is a start and I am hearing that cases in CA are starting to be heard differently and positive out comes are happening due to your exposure keep it up and dig deeper.
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03/26/2011 11:59:00 PM
Nice job to Peter Jamison and SF Weekly in telling HALF the story AGAIN. No mention of the countless parents that falsely accuse their ex of abuse or the failure of the courts to properly enforce California laws against such false allegations. Or the fallout to the children that suffer because of a parent willing to use them as a pawn. Or the fact that because of lack of enforcement that there is an epidemic of false allegations going through the family courts, making it nearly impossible for real abuse to be taken seriously or properly resourced. Vigorously enforce the laws against making false allegations and much of the problem goes away. Report this Peter Jamison...in all fairness to our children and families. Otherwise, it becomes clear that you're simply promoting propaganda and are part of the problem.
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Count me out 03/26/2011 10:26:00 PM
Mia Tyler -- well said. If you comment on my blog familycourtmatters.wordpress.com, I can email some information on the KY court system, very interesting (it might also be blogged in part on the earlier Jamison Article). Groups operating out of California is the source of some of your problems in KY, and I can prove this from the Kentucky Court system. It's already written up, and I could email it.
You get a person in the court case removed, potentially, if you check their vendor payments, and find out what's amiss -- this requires some background lookups (DNK how it works in Kentucky, but in many states, the information is available on-line). They are not allowed to double-dip, and they are not allowed to be caught in fraud. Fraud is much more likely to impact who's on a case than complaining about bad decisions.
If this is a separation case, it follows one pattern. Sounds like it's a CPS, which is a different, but not completely different, pattern. Perhaps looking up might help as much as speaking out.
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Count me out 03/26/2011 10:20:00 PM
Cold North Wind -- pathos & empathy doesn't stay there. It has the love to move into analysis also, and then action. This is what Jesus did -- he didn't just feel and notice, he could also heal.
Well, he's not here right now, except in people moved by the same spirit, I mean, recognize the suffering, the causes of it, and correct the causes.
Jamison and CJE, and many others, have made a name blogging the problems and proposing their solutions, but they haven't blogged the full extent of the problems, and as such, haven't earned my respect, and certainly not allegiance.
Particularly when dealing with traumatized women, or men, who have been betrayed by the courts, people coming in saying "trust us, we'll help you deal with those bad guys" have an ethical requirement -- at least as human beings -- to not hold out and hold back on RELEVANT facts that might help those distressed people become more independent -- of their new set of helpers!
Of course there are few "ethical" requirements for being a human being (at least enforceable ones), so the thing I recommend is WE develop some backbone and intelligence, and continue to grow in knowledge of the courts (etc.) and not just try to run another 100 miles or so on the same gas tank of propaganda about, it's a problem with the judges training plus a psychological theory. Give me a break!
It seems to me the people who do the best reporting are people who have been through the system. They get good and mad, and demand answers -- not ask others to go get their answers, digest them into smaller bites, and spoonfeed them like little birdies with open mouths, "feed me, feed me! Hope! Solutions! Help! Teach me! I will blog for you, I will come to your rallies, I will congratulate everything you do....). (Sorry to say this -- but I'm starting to conceive of it this way).
(This commentary goes for GlennSacks HoundDogs also....)
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Count me out 03/26/2011 10:11:00 PM
Hey! -- I have an idea. Let's report the money trail on BOTH CJE (etc.) and Glenn Sacks? Not rebut his comment about one inappropriate nonprofit's connection with a legislature by pointing out another one's....
Any money KR has donated back to those who need help --was it her personal (and shows on the personal tax return), or on KRC's or CJE's (because it doesn't show there). Thats' the first I've heard of it. Because one woman I know is homeless and is a stalwart CJE supporter, I really, really doubt that CJE did squat for her financially.
Archbishop Desmond Tutu (from Brainyquote-dot-com).
"I am not interested in picking up crumbs of compassion thrown from the table of someone who considers himself my master. I want the full menu of rights.
Desmond Tutu
and
"When the missionaries came to Africa they had the Bible and we had the land. They said "Let us pray." We closed our eyes. When we opened them we had the Bible and they had the land."
— Desmond Tutu
why are you defending people who you think have the same agenda as you, but don't, because in public, they are found praying with you ("Let us pray") but the simple 501(c)3 --did you look at 'em, Jennifer? -- it's very clear to me that CJE is not a going concern, it's being propped up by funding. We have some right to ask, whose -- because from the start, it had a certain agenda. CPPA's mailing list & CJE's agenda - no one exposes the depth of corruption in the courts. Certainly it's nothing more than another panel (with CJE of course, and some others) on it couldn't correct. TRUST us, "Let us pray."
I am on the West Coast. I know a LOT of mothers who promote this group, and I don't see their cases or their financial situations exactly turning around. It's already on the record, if they veer from the direction set by this nonprofit, they willb e droped, and no reporting of it.
While Charles Citrine is half right, the half he's put up there is basically, I'd say, right.
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Count me out 03/26/2011 9:36:00 PM
RE:
"Court professionals have mistakenly been taught they are "high conflict"
You're in denial? You think that the terms "high conflict" is a training mistake?
So, you weren't formerly associated with AFCC and didn't attend their conferences, are unaware of this organization and its influence on the courts, and in fact, haven't even read its "About Us/History page yet?, where they boast about the progress in language transformation from the "old" language of criminal law to a newer better one focused on family relationships?
And are unaware that they already believe they have the best practices (including preaching about PAS and training each other in it): From Mission and Values page:
"ABOUT AFCC
Mission, Vision and Values
Mission
AFCC is an interdisciplinary, international association of professionals dedicated to improving the lives of children and families through the resolution of family conflict.
AFCC promotes a collaborative approach to serving the needs of children among those who work in and with family law systems, encouraging education, research and innovation and identifying best practices. "
........Does it say anything about dispensing justice, upholding oaths of office (for judicial members, and there are plenty) or honoring due process in the courts? ....
AFCC HISTORY PAGE:
"In 1975, Review Editor Meyer Elkin editorialized on the language of family law:
Why do we continue to use the language of criminal law in family law? Is it primarily tradition that causes us to continue to use the old words in family law?"
HERE are their tasks forces and initiatives -- including making sure that when Domestic Violence is considered, AFCC's viewpoint (that it IS a "family matter") gets proper priority:
"Task Forces and Initiatives
Child Custody Consultant Task Force
Child Custody Evaluation Standards Task Force
Family Law Education Reform Project
Parenting Coordination Standards Task Force
Domestic Violence and Family Courts Project ***
Child Welfare Collaborative Decision Making Network
Brief Focused Assessment Task Force
Court-Involved Therapist Task Force"
***AFCC and NCJFCJ Domestic Violence and Family Courts Project (2007)
Family court judges, lawyers, domestic violence advocates, social science and legal scholars, court administrators and psychologists were among the nearly 40 participants who attended a Think Tank on Domestic Violence and Family Courts, cosponsored by the AFCC and the National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges (NCJFCJ) on February 15-17, 2007 at the Johnson Foundations’ Wingspread Conference Center in Racine, Wisconsin.
Participants spent two days addressing critical issues raised by the growing awareness that not all uses of violence in intimate relationships are the same. .."
By contrast, at last count (and as you just said here), somehow the CJE/CPPA, OTHER DV experts etc.) will persuade some smart NON-AFCC judge to include them in on a piece of the action, too? Because according to AFCC, they have this one covered, Barry...
http://www.barrygoldstein.net/custodyvisitscandal.html
Of the 14 points mentioned, notice point 14, in fact the last several points:
"10. Failure to consider and use up-to-date domestic violence research.
11. Approaches that blame the victim.
12. Use of biased or unsupported theories (i.e. Parental Alienation Syndrome; “Angry women”; “Vindictive women”; alienation; masochism etc.)
13. Extreme penalties against protective mothers.
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14. Outcomes that make it appear like the judge was bribed even though that is usually not the cause of the judicial abuse. * * *
I am not saying that every case that fits many of the above criteria has to have been improperly decided, but I believe research will find that 98% or more of such cases have been tragically mishandled. Custody-Visitation Scandal Cases should be identified, examined. and corrected when necessary. Even more important, society must create a system to prevent such cases from happening."
*** what is your basis for saying that is not usually the cause of judicial abuse? What else but a bribe could cause such tragedies, punishing mothers, and so forth?
Well, the courts etc. apparently have created a system that makes such cases happen - so the tragedy it not that they're happening, but that society let the courts design such a system, and trusted our elected officials, rather then kept tabs on them.
I find it hard to believe that a regular old mother (noncustodial) like me could notice these things and experienced authors and attorneys just don't. Please break out of denial and help us if you can. But don't sell us hope with the goal of getting in on the task forces that already exist, and we hope that your voice is stronger than ours.
No Bribes?
Bribes have been already identified in several cases, and national disgraces reported by a Georgia Senator, a former Nebraska Legislator (John DeCamp), a Los Angeles taxpayer advocate attorney (whatever Richard Fine was before he got disbarred) and others. Kids for Cash in Luzerne County, PA involved some judges. Strong indications exist that bribes HAVE been taken of. In other fields, it's known they do -- why should we expect in the justice system, they don't?
Task Force of Experts? The phrase makes me shudder, almost. How about an educated populace? But don't tell us things we already know, or could find out ourselves, and don't kid me that trying harder in the courtroom is going to stop a problem that originated outside it.
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Count me out 03/26/2011 8:55:00 PM
Well, talk about a mutual pat the back session:
" A smart judge would bring together the Center for Judicial Excellence, California Protective Parents Association, State DV coalitions and other domestic violence experts and try to work together to get the needed reforms. I think that would be a better plan than forcing the legislature to impose needed reforms."
And, would you be on this panel of DV experts, or reform groups?... Would your book be used???
Dear Barry -- my comment above is responsive to this one. Are you IN on this scam? Because I believe that anyone who can handle the level of detail in cases, and rebut evidence in court, is able to follow the youtube explanation of the money laundering, and it's been now about 21 years (a kid could've born and reached maturity) since NAFCJ.net (East Coast) began reporting this information, based in part on the Irene Jensen & karen Anderson cases, plus Marv Byer's investigation in Los Angeles, and Richard Fine's role in that.
Perhaps it's like a fish in a fishbowl reporting on the water. There are things about the water (like perhaps, scum on the glass preventing light from filtering through to the inside ) that others don't. Obviously, you know that professionals get retaliation, and I know that's rough.
But, has the cat got your tongue in these matters, or what? Please let us know. Because there are other ways to make a living then selling books which cover up this scandal, and implicate yourselves in the coverup simply by failing to even MENTION it, then sell it as transforming the practices in the courts.
You think a Smart Judge should bring together all you smart organizations and smart experts, and of course the state DV coalitions (NCADV has it's own marketing connections) -- should "work together to impose needed reforms."
My smarts tell me that this "working together" is more likely to be splitting up the "additional resources" that will be needed to implement the plans. For a role model, say the Family Justice Center Alliances, right?
Mr. Goldstein Sir, and I do mean Sir, Let me say this as nicely again as I can: I don't believe you lack smarts. I believe there must be another reason for this line of reasoning, and ask you to explain to the rest of us what it is -- and why you can't/won't talk anything basically but PAS and abusers and train the judges talk? Perhaps the wise thing to do is move over and let some smart parents figure this out without coaching from anyone with a financial interest in the outcome. After all, we are the ones in the boxing rings, here.
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Count me out 03/26/2011 8:39:00 PM
Change for the Better -- IN order to remove that "tie that binds" child support to custody -- one has to know where it is.
I've found out that mothers (including Rikki's mother) DO know -- it's not exactly a secret -- but that because we are so wrapped up into following the lead of judges and professionals -- even after we have blogged this, and reported/exposed, etc. -- they (and for the most part, the press) continue to "drop the ball."
Mothers know, and many Dads do, too. This article (by a mother) dates to July 2009 and is clear enough....
http://www.randijames.com/2009/07/michael-hayes-wants-to-build-family.html
[Randijames dot com/2009/07/michael-hayes-wants-to-build-family dot html]
"I must continue to emphasize that the Office of Child Support Enforcement (OSCE) is no longer about collecting child support. It is about meddling in your family business and exercising government control over families (which begins with the "birth certificate" and "marriage licenses"), with emphasis on removing control from women as childbearers and autonomous beings. This money is NOT going to raise the children--it is going into million-dollar research at the hand of psychology pseudoscience and court litigation.
Well, who is Michael Hayes?
I'm glad you asked.
(emphasis mine)
Michael Hayes is the Deputy for Family Initiatives in the Child Support Division of the Texas Office of the Attorney General. His extensive experience includes the development of policy, partnerships, and projects that support family stability, paternity establishment, * * *father involvement * * *, and child support program improvement. Before his current post, he helped create and was director of the Texas Fragile Families Initiative, a statewide project involving community-based, faith-based, and public agencies to support fragile families."
Is it Child Support or Family Initiatives? Well, the Initiatives means, more grants available, so why not have an entire OFFICE of Family Initatives. And this is within the Attorney General (relationship to law enforcement right) Office.
Here's a link to a downloadable table of contents to the "fresh perspectives" and changing-the standards book edited by Barry Goldstein / Mo Hannah, and being marketed at conferences for noncustodial mothers, and through DV circles, last I heard:
http://www.civicresearchinstitute.com/toc/DVAC%20TOC.pdf
I downloaded, printed it out (over 100pp), read it repeatedly scanning for a chapter on the role of the child support system. It ain't there -- let alone any chapter on AFCC, and while there's a whole section on "fathers' rights" and the history of the movement, there appears to be ZERO discussion of the funding behind it, how this funding got started (and by whom), its distribution networks, and the players in this.
Described as:
"Domestic Violence, Abuse, and Child Custody
Legal Strategies and Policy Issues
Editors: Mo Therese Hannah, Ph.D. and Barry Goldstein, J.D
“Domestic Violence, Abuse, and Child Custody will be instructive for policymakers, those working in the family justice system, and members of the media–which the authors say has by-and-large failed to expose custody court scandals. But it is a must-read for any mother involved in a child custody battle, and especially for mothers trying get free from an abusive relationship."
—R. Dianne Bartlow, Ms. Magazine Blog" (etc.)
So, I'm thinking that the reason many professionals won't talk about it is either, it would cut back on a growing business (although I realize Mr. Goldstein just got spat out of the representing such mothers' business in court...) which would go away if the corruption in the courts, and the MECHANICS of child custody case flagging, and prolonging, and/or switching -- actually were known, say, in all counties of all US States. Put this together with the AFCC & CRC, and then we'd for sure be facing a tax revolt -- for good reasons.
But why mothers won't, that knows? That one beats me. Either silenced, or dazzled by any attention from mainstream press (did Mr. Jamison address this? Has CJE, before ONLY just recently, as to fatherhood funding).
I know that many people have tunnel vision according to their preference (I admit I have too, since I discovered this and how what's been blogged and reported since at least 1993, was never told me, during my 20 years in first, abuse, second, litigation.
But as to professionals, I believe that unless we check the books, we cannot know who is and who is not on the payroll. As these are public information books, then it's the public's responsibility to look at them - not their few "frozen chosen" (rigid dogma about what's wrong with the courts --and refusing to talk anything much different than:
PAS or anti-PAS
About abusers or about the fatherlessness crisis
Train someone -- more (like that's not what's already been done?)
Psychology or social science profiling (or gender profiling)
More money, more money, more money to investigate abuse (sure, you right!)
If parents would simply print out AFCC conference brochures and read them, you'd probably recognize some judges or professionals on your own cases, and most certainly would know which end is up about PAS. This is about language change and changing how the courts work - without telling the general public that this is the intent and effect. Find out who, if anyone, on your case, belongs to and endorses this association.
Second, know thy courts -- and which nonprofits are getting business referrals from them? OK, who sits on those boards, and who manages the FEDERAL program funds? Get actual vendor payments -- look at the books yourself (and don't pay someone else to supposedly audit, at this point).
Read Judges 700 forms (disclosures of financial conflicts of interest) and see if things have been omitted (usually, they have). Pain in the neck, but informational....
And in California, if we don't understand the California Judicial Council (hint: asking them for "help" shows ignorance of what's up) and won't take time to simply read the case history of US Prosecutor Richard Fine's continuing attempts to expose adn stop corruption throughout Los Angeles County (and affecting the entire state) -- then too dang bad. You prefer your ignorance, and don't ask me to explain things anymore, or complain -- I'll ignore it. Ignorance is a choice. FullDisclosure.net. Of all people fathers ought to understand this, because one of the key cases dealt with a scam around the child support distributions by the DA.
Thank you, Jamison et al for publishing patsy summaries like this** where people (complaining about this) can come and discuss/expose things in the comments fields.
**I stand by this description. How can someone not have done a little check-up on the main judge cited as DISapproving of Parental Alienation when the organization she helps run (being with others, on its Board of Directors) is the prime promoter of it to judges, courts, and almost anyone else who can be charged to sit through a training session on it, and itself has been characterized as, in origin, simply a Los Angeles County Judges Slush Fund to start with?
Have trouble with reading about complex court litigation and keeping it straight?
This is a rough video of a woman showing check copies, and explaining it herself. (Is this Irene Jensen?). She's chewing gum, or a cough drop -- but she can keep the facts straight across paperwork in a file. This includes "the Sturgeon case." The video shows the paperwork.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K_lwzj8DY_U
Please let this be a message to the professionals that regular people CAN keep our facts straight, and connect the dots... and if you continue to just cover this up, or "fail to report" (year after year), we will not wait for your "OK" to do so ourselves... and educate those who do not require the cover of some big-name, or medium-sized-name nonprofit "For Reforming the Courts" -- to tell the truth about how this works.
This woman is explaining the HOW of money laundering....since 1962 . . . . nothing reported to the IRS -- they use the Government EIN. (notice -- when they show her face, the sound doesn't match the video. But listen to the content!) "They have created themselves a web."
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03/26/2011 1:23:00 PM
And KR has donated time and money back to those who need the help. She is not rolling in dough as many would like to present. And while we are on the subject why don't we discuss GS and his payments and how much money his website collects? In his heyday, his small ads cost 50 a week (according to his website). One had the ability to comment then that was removed in favor of a Letter to the Editor feature. He then completely abandoned the website in favor of a partnership with F&F. Notice there is no M - for mother in that equation. Their agenda is perfectly clear - remove mothers from the picture completely.
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Honestquestion 03/26/2011 1:22:00 AM
Good point Barry. What role do you see father's rights, the AFCC, CRC, and kickback scams using federal tax dollars playing in all of this? Where is all the money going?
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Dprince616 03/24/2011 2:12:00 PM
How do we begin to fix Family Court? First off we have to accept responsibility, Harry Truman said that the "buck stopped with him." Yet, not one Governor nor Barack Obama will address and face the issue. They are responsible for, respectively, their states or the country. Take the responsibility that came with the job.
Step two, hold judges responsible for their decisions. Proof of abuse comes out, hold the judge legally and financially responsible. They should be erring on the side of caution instead of deciding that all mothers/women are liars. If a judge abdicates his/her responsibility to so-called experts, they are responsible for making sure that these people are ethical and are bound by the decisions, again holding them legally and financially responsible.
Third - return the children to their protective parents immediately. No ifs, and or buts. They can start with Rikki Dombrowski.
That's how you begin to fix a system so mired in corruption that it killed over 80 children last year. It's a start, not the complete solution.
By the way, thank you SF Weekly and Peter Jamison for having the courage to take the topic on.
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Change for the Better 03/24/2011 5:29:00 AM
Simple: Remove the tie in between custody and money, and the abusers who are fighting for custody, only because they don't want to pay support, will evaporate. (For an abuser, the secondary reason to fight for custody is to hurt their children's mother, not because they want to spend time with and nurture their children.)
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Barry Goldstein 03/24/2011 4:23:00 AM
The reporter should receive a major journalism prize for helping expose the crisis in the custody court system. There are too many spectaucularly wrongly decided cases to continue to dismiss the complaints as "disgruntled litigants" The murders and other events after bad decisions demonstrate the decisions were wrong, but courts assume once they make a decision it is by definition right and they don't have to look again in the face of new information. The suggestions of the public officials are good, but I would add one of the big problems is that 90% of contested custody are domestic violence cases. Court professionals have mistakenly been taught they are "high conflict" and that leads to failure to recognize domestic violence and act properly. The courts and the legislature should seek expertise from domestic violence experts to develop practices that are more reality based and work better for children. At the same time the courts should stop being defensive and work to reform practices that are outdated and discredited. We hear many complaints that the courts are corrupt. I believe a lot of this belief is because of the extreme and outrageous decisions that don't reflect the evidence presented or the well being of children. These decisions create an appearance of bias, ignorance and corruption. Judges have an ethical obligation to avoid such appearances. They can't meet their ethical obligation by attacking critics and ignoring the research that proves their standard practices work poorly for children. A smart judge would bring together the Center for Judicial Excellence, California Protective Parents Association, State DV coalitions and other domestic violence experts and try to work together to get the needed reforms. I think that would be a better plan than forcing the legislature to impose needed reforms.
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03/24/2011 3:25:00 AM
Ohh- another excellent comment. You have a lot of quiet support out there- globally, Mr.Jamison. I know that several mothers , including myself, have experienced the loss of our small children, to abusers. Criminals. It is comforting to know that some people hear us, and that I am not alone.
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Charles Citrine 03/24/2011 3:24:00 AM
I'm sorry, but I've lost any respect I had for Mark Leno (and I liked him a lot) after he got involved in this issue. He doesn't have the slightest idea what he is talking about. He is neither a lawyer nor a family law litigant. He didn't hold hearings and only listened to a few of the Center for Judicial Excellence's disgruntled litigants, and certainly didn't talk to any of the other parents in those cases.
Also, I believe that it is inappropriate for Senator Leno to push the agenda of the Center for Judicial Excellence. Kathleen Russell is the director of the CJE and she received over $450,000 in fees in 2008 and 2009. The 2010 numbers aren't in yet, but I bet they're the same. Senator Leno hasn't revealed that Kathleen Russell also worked for him. So, anything he says has to be questioned.
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03/24/2011 3:22:00 AM
Oh yes, this is global. I am in the northern part of N.America, and the attitudes driving horrendous decisions are as unspeakable in their outcomes, as some of the situations already described by Mr.Jamison. Thank you for writing for the children . This is all so- hopeful !
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03/24/2011 3:19:00 AM
Another excellent article by Mr.Jamison and an excellent comment, tld. This is so hopeful, for hurt children everywhere.
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tld 03/24/2011 1:48:00 AM
I strongly agree with Senator Leno's concerns, as well as, with his proposal "to push the judiciary toward reform". I support whatever it takes to make judges follow the law and make family courts accountable to the other two branches of government and most importantly, to the people they are paid to serve. Individual judges are supposed to be "independent", which means they are not permitted to rule in accord with political/personal allies/agendas or against political/personal foes; also, judicial "independence" does not entitle judges to exercise authority independent of the law. The principle of judicial independence does not make the judiciary independent, it is but one of three branches of government who are to keep checks and balances on one another and answer to the people. The lack of accountability of judges and the courts must be addressed by legislation. Existing judicial conduct commissions should be dissolved, judges who refuse to follow the law must be removed and criminal acts commited by judges be prosecuted.
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Awarren2006 03/24/2011 12:14:00 AM
I agree with Mia,, it is a Nation wide problem in Family Courts. They ( courts) have forgotten that they are there to enforce the laws ,, not make new ones. Their wrong decisions are harming and sometimes killing children and mothers.. All in the name of Money... Are we a Totalitarian Nation where there is not rights or protection against abusers and our children and mothers mean nothing. What happen to our Democracy Nation where there are right given by the Constitution which founded this Great Nation.. God help our children if this is not changed fast and NOW...
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03/23/2011 9:19:00 PM
This is a national issue. In KY the state auditor found that the some of the children in the states custody had the same addresses as registered sex offenders. It is difficult to get anything done via a complaint on a suspected corrupt judge because the majority of states have a process where the judges friends decide if the complaint is valid or not. Getting a guardian ad litem removed is the same problem. Often gender biased court appointed psychologists and custody evaluators are used and there is no checks on them either. I have read your papers on this issue Mr. Jamison, and would like to see you writing about this on a national level as well. We are in dire need of people to speak on our behalf as many of us have gag orders. We haven't the money for custody court, let alone fighting the gag orders. Our children continue to be abused and we have no voice that is recognized by the courts. Court watch is not allowed in family court in many areas, and there is little or no accountability in the family court divisions across the US. We are hoping that CA can develop some legislation in this regard that the entire US can follow...which can then be followed by the rest of the world...YES this is GLOBAL! Thank you for writing this!
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Cindy 03/23/2011 8:12:00 PM
Thank you so much Peter Jamison and SF Weekly for covering this very important issue of children being forced to live with abusers by family courts. That is what true journalism is about--having the courage to expose powerful government agencies that are ineffective at best and corrupted at worst, and to stand up for the little people--literally--the children.