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01/10/2012 12:20:00 AM
Back in the olden days in a far away state that rhymes with Nexas, people used to handle these types of religious dramas in this way:
No charges were ever filed. The offenders just...disappeared.
This needs to be the answer now. There are far too many adults(fellow clergy, other parents, neighbors, teachers, administrators,police, counselors) aiding the offenders in these situations.
The laws don't help with this:instant death, not counseling or prison, is the answer to this epidemic.
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Dreamk10000 10/02/2011 12:53:00 AM
Well said and with compassion. I left organized religion after being raped in first and second grade in a catholic school. This monsignour was praised for all he did.
A nun walked in on several of us in the basement being sexually abused by this priest. We were sent back to class,traumatic & clothes disheveled. They had no eyes to see. My heart can find no peace in any religion. I would worship nature because it is not perverse, before any organized religion.
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Dreamk10000 07/30/2011 7:47:00 PM
I am looking for the person who said they were abused by Msr. Albert Berube @ St. Anthony's in New Bedford, Mass.
I would like to talk with you. I attended first & second grade there in the 60's and so far have been the only one to come forward. I tried to reply to you post from 2 months ago.
My email is...dreamk10000@yahoo.com. I posted him on the bishopaccountability.org site on SNAP(SURVIVORS NETWORK FOR THOSE ABUSED BY PRIESTS) I have a claim against the arcdiosese in Fall River. I witnessed the abuse of others children alongside myself in the basement of the rectory.
I hope you are out there somewhere. I hope we can someday share our stories. I felt so validated by your post. It made me feel less alone in the world.
I will speak up & loud until and when I feel avenged for what he did to me. I am sorry that we endured his abuse.@ the hands of this evil institution & predator. Most sincerly.....me
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Dreamk10000 07/28/2011 2:02:00 PM
As a victim of priest abuse by Monsignor Albert Berube
While attending St. Anthony's Elementary School in the 60's in New Bedford, Mass I know firsthand how men in power hide the sickest of their members which of course says how sick they are too. They are not subject to ever be anything but a pedophile. My predator priest had a dark side that was frightening.....understandable they cannot tolerate their own repulsive self
Speak your truth.don't mince words! All of you evil f...s
Will pay with your soul for the crimes you commit against children. Who gives a rats ass about you. If you turned your back on a child you suck.
Speak up,speak loud, speak the truth....all children need our protection from pedophiles that infiltrate our society.
If you prey on a child......you don't get q life!!
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Dreamk10000 07/28/2011 1:53:00 PM
As a victim of priest abuse by Monsignor Albert Berube
While attending St. Anthony's Elementary School in the 60's in New Bedford, Mass I know firsthand how men in power hide the sickest of their members which of course says how sick they are too. They are not subject to ever be anything but a pedophile. My predator priest had a dark side that was frightening.....understandable they cannot tolerate their own repulsive self
Speak your truth.don't mince words! All of you evil f...s
Will pay with your soul for the crimes you commit against children. Who gives a rats ass about you. If you turned your back on a child you suck.
Speak up,speak loud, speak the truth....all children need our protection from pedophiles that infiltrate our society.
If you prey on a child......you don't get q life!!
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P.A. 06/30/2011 4:37:00 PM
Jesuits serve the Vatican the most evil power on earth, read more here
hence, Jesuits are evil as well.
Read Lawsuit versus John Paul II and Benedict XVI the pair of eyes that ruled the Holy See, the pair of hands that shepherded the Vatican
http://popecrimes.blogspot.com/
The Vatican is the MOST EVIL POWER on Earth. The Vatican’s worst crimes are the Vatican Swiss Banks that hoard despots’ ill-gotten wealth hence they perpetuate poor countries and poor peoples. UN UNITED NATIONS must END the VATICAN as a “NATION” because it is only 1 one building for males homosexual GAYS (population less than a USA High School). Women and children are forbidden in it. The Pope and Cardinals do not need “diplomatic immunity” to re-incarnate Jesus in the Eucharist + Mass = SORCERY
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06/24/2011 4:01:00 AM
RastazKoon, you are full of hate, as I am also full of hate, but it is important to direct your hate exactly where it belongs. When a grown adult sexually molests a child, nothing is being shared, and EVERYTHING is being stolen - from the child. In direct contrast to that, when 2 consenting adults, who happen to be queer, sexually engage each other, nothing is being stolen, and everything is being shared. This is like sesame street - two opposite things - NOT THE SAME. If you find yourself obsessively hating all "faggots", sometimes feeling that hate when you notice another man looking in your direction on a bus, or in a crowd, or wherever, then you are repressing memories of being raped by a man when you were a child. THAT IS A FACT. It takes NO COURAGE to hate "all the faggots". It takes HUGE courage to look inside your OWN self, and your OWN past, and find out what actually happened to YOU. Grow some balls, find your courage, and stop being an asshole.
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06/13/2011 5:11:00 AM
Hi davidowen, I've poored through so many hundreds of books, pamphlets, articles, and so on in my life, I have a hard time remembering any particular one. And, there is no one source that I know of that has consolidated all the available info regarding the truth behind the invasion of Naziism into Germany. It is public knowledge, however, that the Bush family, Rockerfellers, Ford family, and several other high Masons filtered large sums to the fledgling Nazi party. Generally speaking, "the banks" were behind both world wars, and they made millions selling arms to both sides. Also, much of my opinion comes from the very sophisticated "satanic" rituals which I personally witnessed and endured for 8 years at St. Schoolastica parish in Detroit Michigan. These rituals included many elements which I later learned were of Masonic origin, many elements which were very similar to the kinds of horrors the Nazis produced, including very specific demonization of Jews. I can't for the life of me remember where I read about Engles helping Socialism to become "fashionable" among the Europian acedemia, but it certainly makes sense, as a clever stategy, if you think about it. That strategy was working, so Hitler and the Nazis became the human bomb which completely exploded Europe into war and mayhem, totally destroying any chance for a rational debate about capitalism vs. socialism. Did you know the allies carpet bombed Germany for two years after the surrender?
On a happier note,, here is one of my favorite quotes, from myself:
"That which is most Human, is most Sacred; that which is most Sacred, is most Human".
I believe that expresses the original Christian religion, before it was re-militarized by the Romans. And of course, that original Christian religion, was a desert-culture variation of the original forest-culture Shamanic religions: "That which is most Natural, is most Sacred; that which is most Sacred, is most Natural". If we were to combine the two, as a means to save at least some of Nature, we would have the "formula": "That which is most Human and Natural, is most Divine and Sacred; that which is most Divine and Sacred, is most Human and Natural". That is my religion. If you like it, send me all your money, and I'll let you touch the hem of my robe. Hey, some Guru's are more equal than others! Hope yer laughin.
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Davidowen74 06/11/2011 6:47:00 AM
Thank you for the thoughtful post James. If you have a particularly informative book or reference you would like to share about the Vatican/Masonic support of HItler I would like to know about it. Hope to learn more from you in the future, and then use that power against people for my own nefarious scheme....ha ha. JK. signing off myself to practice. stay in touch if you want with facebook or whatever. I am in SanDiego, a city filled to brim with right wing wacko's, and some heavy intellectuals, though I have not found them. In SF it seemed the overall IQ was significantly higher. I miss the city.
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06/11/2011 2:42:00 AM
Hi David, thanks for responding. Learning about all the secret criminal activity that has been going on for so many centuries can seem a lot like being in "the matrix" movie, I suppose, except it's not about computers, it's about money, power, and sex; the big three addictions of "dominant" males (notice the quotes). If you really want to be "floored", try to research who actually funded Hitler, and why. Adolf Hitler was the Vatican's solution to Carl Marx. Or, Adolf Hitler was the Masonic solution to Carl Marx. Or, Adolf Hitler was "capitalism's" solution to Carl Marx. Three statements equally accurate. At the top of the pyramid, they are all the same people. Why? Socialism was becoming fashionable among the German inteligensia, and the Germans, unlike Americans, revered their intillectuals. Russia had already fallen to the Bolshevecks (or however you spell it), and Engles had his sites set on Germany next. If the edcucators and celeberties became socialist, the people would follow, then the nation. If Germany became a Socialist state, France would have been next, then the rest of Europe, etc. The problem was, that Engles was not the only person who envisoined this sequence of events. So did the super-rich ruling families of Europe and America. So Hiltler was funded, called himself a Socialist, when in fact he was the opposite of a Socialist (therby demonizing Socialism), and the entire nation of Germany became an experiment in mass mind control. The oldest strategy in the books - to make the demons appear as victims, and the victims appear as demons - or any number of variations of that basic theme, were utilized to transform an entire nation into a fascist machine. I am reminded of a rumor which implies that being Socialist is equivilent to being anti-semetic. That is nonsense. I am sure there were plenty of progressive socialist-leaning Jews in Europe before Hitler slaughtered them all. I seem to be rambling on here. Maybe I should write something good in this post, to balance the other two. Hmmmm. The first thing I'd mention is that the "bad guys" are not the only game in town; there are also secret groups of healers, and other helpers of one sort or another, and of course, the majority of normal people, who, in the absence of relentless manipulation and constant financial pressure, would choose to do the right thing most of the time. I have no doubt that the vast majority of human beings are born "good", but our fears, prejudices, compulsions, and so on are easlily manipulated by those who stand outside of humanity, looking in. Another discovery which helps me is that the more evil a person is, the more cowardly he is also. That is universal, and it applies equally to individuals and groups of individuals. The immense evil of the ritual abuse of children is carried out behind layers upon layers of secrecy, but these secrets are slowly being exposed - as quckly as the people can handle. As they become exposed to the light of day, the cowards who do these acts run and hide as quickly as they possible can. I have a twelve hour work day tomorrow, so I should sign off.
The more evil a man is, the more cowardly his is also.
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06/09/2011 8:16:00 AM
Talk about disorienting. I did enjoy this post james but I am floored by the implications.
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06/08/2011 7:12:00 AM
thank you for your compassion, Seorsa, it means a lot to me. I just wrote you a long reply, but it did not send, and now it's lost in cyberspace. Maybe this one will go through. I mentioned that the reason folks refuse to believe this kind of abuse is real, is because thinking about it makes them feel disoriented and unsafe. Denial is a mild form of dissociation. In reality, ALL institutions that are very old and very powerful have evolved a duplistic structure in order to survive. They espouse "positive" ideas and do positive deeds in public, but then in secret they do whatever is necessary to maintain their power and wealth, and in the case of the Catholic church in particular, to satisfy the sadistic sexual addictions of so many of the clergy. I don't believe that all religion is an abomination, though. Spiritual ideas that become popular are eventually twisted and co-opted by the ruling classes, and molded to fit the status quo. The inevitable function of organised religion, then, is to ENABLE organized oppression. A symbiotic relationship evolves between the chuches and the governments (or nowadays, between the churches and the banks which run the governments).
Heaven versus Hell; Rich versus Poor -- BI-POLAR. Think about it.
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Beatriz 06/07/2011 4:43:00 PM
Seorsa, you seem seriously confused. If you are thinking about who has had the most land STOLEN from them, it may actually be the Catholic Church. Check those facts out with an unbiased source. Feel free, however, to continue to fear and hate an organization that is strictly voluntary, has no legislative power whatsoever, no military or arsenal, no power to tax, no power to incarcerate, no earthly power whatsoever, unless you are afraid of being denied access to the sacraments...Wow, yeah, scary..
Sexual abuse is much more prevalent in public schools according to the US Dept of Education, but the victims are unable to sue the state, so since no lawsuits are filed, there is nothing for lazy journalists to report on. They can continue their ritual worship of public school teachers while sweeping the victims under the rug.
http://www2.ed.gov/rschstat/research/pubs/misconductreview/report.pdf
Good luck with your misplaced fears and hatred.
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Seorsa 06/06/2011 10:40:00 PM
@beatriz- I believe that the church does profit from the abuse and co-dependent relationships this abuse creates. The Roman Catholic Church is the second largest landowner in the world, second only to McDonalds. Their world wide conspiracy of rape and the coverup of rape, not to mention abuse and protitution is probably scarier than any organized crime sydnicate. In the US there is much less abuse in public schools than in churches. If you are referring to the abuse of the schools as a farm league for the juvenile/youth/adult slave labor system, then yes, it is a far more serious problem than the catholic church, though they have their role (as do most traditional religions) in the prison industrial complex.
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Beatriz 06/04/2011 9:42:00 PM
Seorsa
For RICO charges to apply, there would have to be some profit or financial consideration involved. Of course, many children ARE being sexually exploited for profit and being forced into prostitution all over the world today, but reporting on for-profit criminals would involve some serious investigative WORK and is a DANGEROUS activity. Much easier for lazy journalists to report on a cost efficient lawsuit targeting a relatively transparent organization composed of bureaucratic wimps who won't fight back that also has access to large amounts of donated funds. Nevermind the FACT that the Catholic Church has fewer cases, percentage-wise, of predatory behaviour than any organization that deals with children. The overwhelmingly vast majority of childhood sexual abuse victims have no one to sue and the rare victim of organized crime that escapes alive spends the remainder of their life in hiding. Who can Jaycee Dugard sue? Elizabeth Smart? Bueller?
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Seorsa 06/04/2011 4:39:00 PM
James, I am sorry for your suffering. One of my high school classmates recently "won" a court settlement, and I heard someone at church (I used to go) say,
That is what is is all about, he is now a multi millionaire". It broke my heart to hear that. He has battled with drug abuse, persistent joblessness, social isolation and other issues for years. I would not trade even one hour of watching my children's high school plays for one penny of a church settlement. I only wish everyone reading this cold believe you and heed your warning.
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Seorsa 06/04/2011 4:14:00 PM
As is christianity in general.
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Seorsa 06/04/2011 4:12:00 PM
ESPECIALLY the Jesuits. Notice how despite all the evidence the "superiors", or conspirators as I prefer, continue to dissemble. This is the main purpose of the criminal organization, to maintain their front as a caring group dedicated to education, or else risk losing their access to victims and funding.
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Seorsa 06/04/2011 4:09:00 PM
Wel said, I would join you as well.
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Seorsa 06/04/2011 4:06:00 PM
All religion is an abomination, Christianity is the worst, and Catholics just seem worse because their ubiquitous and better organized.
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Seorsa 06/04/2011 4:04:00 PM
Right on patrick- it has done this for thousands of years. It also steals assets through deception, has condone slavery opposes basic rights for homosexuals, all in an effort to maintain its access to vulnerable men women and children.
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Seorsa 06/04/2011 3:36:00 PM
I wish someone would step up to the plate and file RICO charges against the bishops and orders like the Jesuits and Christian Brothers who were criminal co-conspiritors in the rape and abuse of so many people. There is little doubt that the Church intends to maintain its millenia long primary function of rape abuse.
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Seorsa 06/04/2011 3:32:00 PM
Unfortunately the church has long functioned, and arguably has as its primary purpose, as an organization promoting rape and abuse. This has gone on consistently for over 1800 years (there is little evidence that the church existed as an organization before Constantine's conversion). The "True Catholic Faith" is founded on rape, abuse, murder, and theft. There may be a handful of priest's who are believers and good, but sadly they are being deceived just like the believers.
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Beatriz 06/04/2011 7:20:00 AM
Tuba, your suffering can only be consoled by God's Love and your abusers and their enablers will suffer for eternity while you rest peacefully in the bosom of Abraham. In the final judgement, I suspect that you will actually be praying for God to have mercy on their souls when you understand the miserable punishments they will endure for eternity.
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Beatriz 06/04/2011 7:08:00 AM
Annie
I am not a journalist in a widely read newspaper, so I can rant all day about child abuse in public schools but no one will hear me. Further, regarding the parents of these children, would YOU allow your 16 year old son to work as a "personal assistant" to and travel with ANY adult man? I wouldn't, no way, not even close. This is what we all need to take away from these stories. PARENTS are responsible for protecting their children. They should trust NO ONE alone with their children. Predators are always circling looking for EASY prey. The main requirement is STUPID, TRUSTING parents. These predators go where the children are and look for children with STUPID or DEFECTIVE parents. They are happy to become teachers, coaches, priests, foster parents, social workers etc. to gain credibility and access to your children. The focus on priests and bureaucratic hierarchies does not address the core issue: Parents need to be aware of all attempts to gain access to their children and report all suspicious behavior. There is absolutely no reason to leave your children alone with any adult whatsoever. Just don't do it. Mandatory reporters are obliged to report suspected abuse by PARENTS not by co-workers. PARENTS must report suspected abuse of their children to the appropriate authorities, not "discuss" the issue with the co-workers and/or employers of the predator! Who will have the courage to say the truth!
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Mark 06/04/2011 3:00:00 AM
I agree with Annie. I have a fiend--a nun who has dedicated her whole life to the
cause of juvenile justice. Whenever the priest abuse issue is raised, she goes
ballistic and says, "Why don't they spend time investigating how the criminal justice
system abuses young people?" I try to explain to here that it's apples and oranges--
that her approach tends to take the heat off the priest abusers and the bishops who
cover them up--to say, "look over here and not there." It also plays into the hands
of groups like the Catholic League who accuse the victims and their advocates of
overstating their cases, that the victims themselves are often to blame. That's nonsense.
I also believe that the priest abuse scandal, despite what the bishops say, is
far from over and that new scandals will arise, not only in the U.S. but throughout
the world. There is not too much reporting on this, but too little. And please, stop
the canonization of Pope John Paul II. Both he and Pope Benedict have covered up thse crimes for the past 20 years. Catholics need to get a clue what's going on. They need to wake up!
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Annie 06/03/2011 10:16:00 PM
Beatriz. . .do you really believe this author must on each and every situation in which children are harmed by adult predators to qualify as having a legitimate point? He has a right to have a focus on clergy abuse and let YOU for example, take up the cause of child abuse in the public schools. There is enough abuse to go around. I for one, am THANKFUL Mr. Jamison and others like him keep reporting on cases of clergy abuse: Yes, even after these pedophile predators are "already in prison." The Church spent so much energy, time, money, and deception hiding these truths from us that the more exposure these criminals receive the better our entire community is. We need to be aware of how this trusted institution facilitated the ease at which these predators were allowed to prey! Your suggestion that "parents stood by and facilitated their own children's abuse" is sadly misplaced. Trust in the Church is not facilitation of abuse. Knowing of reported cases of abuse and actively covering them up, denying harm, or failing to report these crimes or blaming the innocent families and children is the real facilitation of abuse you talk about and repeatedly engaged in by the Church. Thank God for this story, many more like it and this REAL journalist who doggedly reports on issues of clergy sexual abuse so long and so desperately hidden from us.
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06/03/2011 6:03:00 PM
As an adult victim of homosexual rape by a priest, I take issue with your apologetic defense of my rapists religion. It IS my religion. The Catholic Religion belongs to US victims of that Religion. The Cross of Jesus tells us so. I've watched from the inside as a Cathedral janitor and Cantor and eyewitnessed all the deceitful maneuverings of the Bishops and pervert priests at the Cathedral where I've been for 33 years.
I saw a "good" Priest report abuse by a "bad" priest going on in the rectory apartment right next to that Bishops own room. The Bishops response was to send the "good" priest away to another parish along with the other witness being wrongfully dismissed with two weeks severance pay. The "bad" Priest was made a monsignor and assumed to be the next in line for Bishop of Columbus until he was publicly outed by one of his victims. Then Good God delivered him by his own hand masturbating in public in a notorious public park. Read the story about Fr Fete in Columbus Monthly magazine. I consider that Late Bishop a complicit enabler and as FR Fete followed him next in line.
I make an intuitive guess the Bishop was as much an abuser as the priest he protected and enabled.
I became a casualty because of that abuse later that year at Army chaplain asst school. 33 years ago. I was a straight arrow young soldier and could not cope with the shame of what happened to me. I was comforted when God vetoed the 2nd Pope that year after 33 days "No More business as usual" is what God said to me in that Historic event.
Parochial Pride considers all this to be an attack on the ICON of the Priesthood and Religion. While it is in fact a historical reiteration of the plot to the Gospel Story. The Cross bears witness to God lifting up the victims of Religion and his vindication of their suffering. The Cross is Gods utter damnation of Religious abuse, theocracy, and corporate self importance of Religious authority and their self important culture, doctrine and tradition. Far from being an attack on the Catholic faith, the sex abuse victims bear witness to the True Catholic Faith of Jesus own victimization with US.
Now pay up to the victims whoever has need.
I require the Popes apology to the President for sex abuse of Military Orphans like myself. If you hate my Commander In Chief, go swim with Bin Ladins corpse.
I require reparations, restitution, and DOUBLE damages for a lost 30 Carreer as an Army Tuba Player (Signal Corp of the Roman Legions please read Apocalypse 8:6 Now because the Vulgate Catholic Bible tells me so).
I never filed a self serving lawsuit. In the service of Gods Kingdom I demand the church give me my just and due before Christ return like a thief in the night to catch Bishops, Priests and Proud Catholic laity with their pants down and a multitude of victims denied Justice crying to God at the church door.
Semper Fi
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Beatriz 06/03/2011 4:41:00 PM
To the author of this column, Mr. Peter Jamison: I was just wondering, since you seem to care soooo much for the children victimized by adult predators, when will you be reporting on the ongoing sexual abuse scandals in the public schools and all the cover-ups and pay-offs going on with taxpayer funds? In my humble opinion, if you do not report on this ongoing scandal, you become one of the enablers yourself just EXACTLY like those whose silence in the past you profess to abhor. You have a voice and can shed some light on a scandal that is happening right now under your very nose, but you would prefer to distract the people with old news that only serves to focus public anger on your personal pet peeve, the Catholic Church and a predator who is already in prison. There are children being victimized today, but you choose to report on a self serving lawsuit filed by adults who were victimized as children as their parents stood by and facilitated their own children's abuse. When will you become a real journalist?
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Carolyn Jean 06/01/2011 6:46:00 PM
This very sick individual should give every Catholic pause. How could such a vile creature
be in a position to treat a young trusting boy, probably already curious about sex, in such
a reprensible manner? It should be clear that this organization never has been the Church
that Jesus Christ founded, because He said:" I will build My Church and the Gates of Hell
shall not prevail against it {Matthew 16:18}."
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Maureen 06/01/2011 1:47:00 PM
Pacheco, a former altar boy who attended Catholic schools and described himself as deeply disturbed by priest abuse scandals in the U.S. said, "Quite frankly, that wasn't satisfactory to me. It was bad enough that priests were molesting children, but 100 times worse that the Catholic Church was protecting them."
We're in the midst of this mess here in Philadelphia and this quote describes one of my feelings about Cardinal Bevilaqua and Cardinal Rigali.
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05/31/2011 12:59:00 PM
Why aren't they being thrown in jail? They should use the RICO act, the one they use against the mafia.
The Catholic church is an organized crime unit - where the crime is child rape, and they shoudl be prosecuted as such.
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JustanotherLAmom 05/31/2011 6:18:00 AM
Uhh, not to defend child molesters or their enablers, but isn't it actually the responsibility of parents to know where their children are, what they are doing with whom and to report any and all inappropriate behaviour to the police? My kids don't ever go on "overnites", and if my child was touched by a teacher, I would contact the police directly not the principal. Just sayin' it is amazing how predators can spot the kids with the lamest parents. Will the victims sue their parents for negligence? Probably not much money in that....
Btw, to all the Catholic bashers, this story reads just like the details of the more numerous public school predators. Predators go where the victims are. This behaviour has nothing to do with Catholicism.
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Marion Kelly12 05/30/2011 4:02:00 PM
I read what you had to say and it makes me so angry that the church has this pastor back working as usual. Iwould like to offer you,that if you would like to go to his area of work and hand out letters to the people and let them know what he did
to you and hopefully save some kid from this terrible abuse I would be happy to stand with you.
Marion kelly
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Enochcarpenter 05/30/2011 7:29:00 AM
Catholicism is an abomination, and it's destruction will happen when Christ returns to reign as King over the earth. As Revelation says, He will rule the nations with a "rod of iron."
Good news people. Rome will fall.
@enochcarpenter
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Marion Kelly12 05/29/2011 5:10:00 PM
This is no shock to me. They all try to hide it. They don't care about the emotional
damage done to the victim. The people who hide the facts should be charged also.
As a victim you look at these priests as your connection to god. You let down your guard and give them all your trust and look what happens.
Marion Kelly.
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Tom Mc 05/29/2011 3:38:00 PM
The church will never be able to handle their sexual abuse problems until they understand that any and all allegations, regardless of credibility, must be immediately reported to the police. It is the police who must investigate and determine validity, not the church.
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Gerald B. Curtis 05/29/2011 2:12:00 PM
This article is as carefully written and as thoroughly documented as any I have read. There is little to be added as the Roman Catholic Church continues to be revealed to be what it is - corrupt and indifferent to the safety of society's most innocent while in the care of its ordained predators. The pope, as have myriad popes before him, heads The Old Boys' Club where any aberrant and predatory behavior by priests is condoned by prelates who fear for loss of their privileged life of ease and debauchery.
Let it be said unequivocally: The pope is knowingly complicit in the abuse of minors as Roman Catholic clergy unrestrictedly prey on the young, and mocks Christ's teachings with self-serving platitudes claiming reform.
This church is unwilling to police itself. Thank God for courageous reporters, law writers, and enforcement professionals who are willing, finally, to see through the haze of this brand of religion as practiced by the Roman Catholic Church, and bring to justice those priests and prelates the Church will not.
Now it is time to indict the pope for crimes against humanity.
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Diannecouts 05/29/2011 3:16:00 AM
It takes one priest to abuse a child. It takes a gaggle of priests to cover it it up and let it continue for generations. They are as guilty as if their own hands had commited the crimes.
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Cindd49 05/29/2011 1:09:00 AM
I find this article about "Father" McGuire a sickening but true story of how the Church will go to great lengths to take care of their own. I went through a similar experience 20 years ago, The Church will do anything to discredit the victim and protect the abuser. My abuser was removed from being active in the Church while receiving treatment, but is now acting as a pastor again,even though he admitted the abuse he did to me. Reading this article just shows me that the same things just keep going on.These abusers are criminals. Would any other criminal receive such protection. Only if they were involved with a crime syndicate. Right? Trust me, if you try to fight them ro gain justice for the victim as well as trying to protect future victims, you are in the battle of a lifetime
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05/28/2011 9:07:00 PM
Mona makes some very intelligent points as to why Catholic parents were once so trusting. However, if parents are unquestioning still when a priest pays inordinate attention to a child, or if they are still allow a child to take unsupervised trips with a priest, they are (as they Church used to say) "invincibly ignorant." Speaking for myself, if at one time priest had asked my son to spend time in the rectory or accompany him on a trip, I would have thought, "Who safer than a priest?" Now we know that predators come in all guises, and sometimes they are in the guise of a priest.
As for Father Fessio and the superiors, you really have to question their logic, and quite probably, their honesty. I can understand Fessio's statement that people are falsely accused and one wants to avoid trashing a priest's reputation in case some lowlife is making up lies about him. Some lowlifes have, in fact, been caught in lies. But the higher ups to whom Fessio turned, once informed about the allegations, sent him to a treatment program. Obviously, they believed the stories. The damage this situation the bishops and other religous superiors have allowed has caused incalcuable damage, but I think those responsible don't get it yet.
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05/27/2011 11:20:00 PM
Again, many thanks to Mr.Jamieson for writing once again on a subject that too many do not wish to acknowledge. Kudos.
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Rikosin 05/27/2011 9:46:00 PM
Even the Jesuits. I am deeply, deeply disappointed.
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Dorishaktiblue 05/27/2011 8:15:00 PM
i read the whole thing and am speechless. How can anyone take this phony men in robes seriously any more. We dont need an institution of perverts like this to find God.
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Jaycarrigan 05/27/2011 6:56:00 PM
This is a classic example of the pecking order in the Catholic Church. At the top are the pope and other bishops, beneath them are priests and religious, then lay people, and children of lay people at the bottom with virtually no standing at all.
I recall an interview with a bishop that was reported in NCR a several years ago. The bishop said that some of his fellow bishops did not discipline abusive priests because they themselves had been abusive of children. When the interviewer reminded the bishop that his statements would be on the record, the bishop repeated that the reason some of his fellow bishops did not discipline their absuive priests was because they themselves were abusers.
Given the regard that bishops and clergy have for Richard Sipe, and his estimate that only ten percent of those obliged by total celibacy are unfaillingly faithful to that obligation, it seems clear why priests and religious protect one another. No doubt they say to themselves, "There but for the grace of God go I." Having spent ten years in the priesthood and claiming no more success than the forty percent that Sipe says are "practicing" celibacy, succeeding mostly, but failing sometimes, I don't think it's true that celibacy is not a factor in child abuse. If nothing else, it is a deterrent of those who have an obligation to speak up about an errant colleague, but remain silent.
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Nagle 05/27/2011 6:50:00 PM
The Catholic Church should be shut down. These scandals keep coming back, year after year, decade after decade. The Catholic Church has built an organization which recruits men, pretends to require them to be celibate but tolerates homosexuality, and puts them in authority over young children. Of course they have a pedophile problem.
Pedophilia is built into the religion: "But Jesus called them unto him, saying, Suffer the little children to come unto me, and forbid them not: for to such belongeth the kingdom of God.". (Luke 18:16). That says it all.
We need to recognize that the Catholic Church is, from its basic theology and organization, a factory for child molesters. It can no longer be allowed to continue.
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Vsagona 05/27/2011 6:26:00 PM
As a victim of sexual abuse, I have seen the church behave in this way on countless occasions. They are more interested in protecting their own than helping victims. Unless and until something is done to ferret out the ignorant leadership in the church...nothing will change.
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Sddiver2 05/27/2011 4:36:00 PM
No new info here> the same thing just a different priest
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Mona 05/27/2011 4:46:00 AM
There seem to be two very different types of priest predator. First there is the type of pedophile-priest who is stuck in emotional and psychological adolescence, who bonds really well with children, appears to love them and understand them, and asks to work with that age group. This type of predator attracts children to him because he shows them lots of attention. His victims are often from emotionally damaged families where the parent(s) is grateful someone is giving the child some attention and taking some of the burden off of them. They are only too happy for “Father” to take their son under his wing, even take him on a trip.
Then there is the type of priest who is exceptionally intelligent, charismatic, ambitious, a Catholic leader. This predator makes “good Catholic parents” feel honored that their son has been singled out for attention by so important a priest. They don’t imagine for a second that his motives are anything other than holy. And what an honor if “Father” wants to take their son with him as his personal assistant. He’ll get to meet important Catholics and maybe he will discover a vocation himself.
In either scenario the parents aren’t completely blameless, but we can’t make them the villains here. In the first scenario they are wounded themselves and probably have multiple psychological issues to occupy their attention, and in the second they are so overwhelmed with the special attention from one “so great” that it is all they can do not to kneel down and kiss his hand. I mean, think about it, in this case it was Mother Teresa’s personal confessor! I know my mother would have handed over my youngest brother in a second, just like my grandparents handed over my dad. As it was she handed me over instead, for “outings.” I am just sad that there are still Catholics who are as naïve and trusting as she.
And as to the superiors in the Jesuits, or any other order, or any diocese … for the love of all things good and holy make a rule that NO priest or religious (male or female) should EVER be allowed to take anyone under 18 as a personal traveling companion, altar boy, driver, whatever. Not even a seminarian. Quite honestly, parents should never let a minor go on their own with any kind of person in authority: teacher, coach, scout leader, whatever. There should be no exception. A parent should always ensure other children AND other adults will always be present. This is safer for the child and for the reputation of any innocent adult.
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James LeBoeuf 05/27/2011 4:12:00 AM
It is always helpful for me to read about child molesters being exposed. However, most of these kinds of articles just skim the surface of what is actually going on. Myself and my mother were both ritually sexually tortured, along with other children, for many years, by many Catholic priests and nuns, and other adults as well, at St. Schoolastica parish in Detroit, Michigan. We were drugged, terrorized, forced to vivicize live animals, and forced to perform all kinds of unnatural sadistic sexual behaviors. During one rutual I was drugged and forced to cut into a pregnant nun, and remove the baby. I was told to "tremble my finger" under the baby's tiny hand until it grasped my finger, and then the baby was "sacrificed to Satan". The priest appeared as if he was injesting something extraordinarily exquisite, as he "breathed in" the spiritual energy leaving the baby's body. The nun wailed in agony and grief. The FACT is, that most severe mental illness is actually post-traumatic hysteria resulting from extreme, sadistic sexual abuse, and this kind of extreme sadistic sexual abuse is pervasive and ongoing, and has in fact been going on for centuries, among secret groups of adults who are protected from the law by virtue of their associations with "legitimate" institutions. Ritual sexual abuse is simply RAPE, but it is rape that is combined with 1. extreme violence, 2. extreme deception, and 3. mind-altering drugs. If I had the ability, I would spend my life exposing all this, but I am so busy dealing with so many layers of post-traumatic misery, that I am not able to. I do not know why God allows people who preach about him in the public light of day, to then "worship Satan" in the private dark of night, but that is exactly what this particular group does, and has been doing for centuries. "Worship good by day; worship evil by night." It is organized crime.
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Gary King 05/27/2011 3:02:00 AM
My understanding is that many girls would not report because they would get called slut and whores. I know there are so many more like you and really honor you for speaking up. I left that disgusting vile church and have never looked back, it does get better and your story is needed. Finding Our Voices, Thank You
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Gary King 05/27/2011 2:50:00 AM
I know there are many of us who tried to tell someone. Many told our parents and were told, "Don't Talk That Way About A Priest!" "he's a man of god" Then we were shunned and endured years of our family going to mass and that pervert would face the crowd, hold up the HOST and say "This Is My Body" like HE was Jesus Christ and at the Consecration many thought that he was. So if they took communion from a perverted priest, was it really the body of Christ? That Church has a disgusting VILE history and I am prowd to have survived and gotten away from those who rape children and the rest who keep secrets.
"Ad Deum Qui Laetificat Juventutem Meam." sed libera nos a malo pater.
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Mikele Rauch 05/27/2011 1:28:00 AM
This is so sick. I am sick. As a psychotherapist who works with male survivors, and particularly those abused by clergy--I am feeling more not less anguish , heartache and rage not only about sexual predators in the church, but the complicit arrogance with which children are used and reused, unprotected by a corrupt system that masks evil with piety.
There is a way back from hell, but it is not in the context of such a system. There is a way to reclaim one's spirit and one's body, but it is not under the auspices of any organized body committed to protecting criminal and heinous acts of sexual violation.
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MICHAEL 05/26/2011 9:02:00 PM
All Assembly And Senate Members:
Trenton, New Jersey
Senate Bill# S2405
Assembly Bill# A3622
The horrendous crime of Sexual Assault to a minor, is extremely real in our state of New Jersey. Over the last several years many advocates and supporters have come forward to address the injustice and constitutionality about laws that crime victims have had to unfairly face in New Jersey.
The criminal law statute for sexual assault was changed in 1995. There is no criminal statute now and rightfully so, in New Jersey, for a victim from sexual assault, to file a criminal claim.
However, just a few legislative sessions ago, Our New Jersey Government did away with another barrier sex crime victims have had in filing and prosecuting criminals that rape children. This was the amendment to a charity shield, called charitable immunity law, in New Jersey.
This charity law was a bar for many claimants. However, a civil law statute expired for filing civil complaints, while waiting for that charity immunity law to be amended, like it was. With much angst to the fact that there has been no remedy in the ability to prosecute and punish certain known offenders within the Camden Diocese,
I am a child sex crime victim that still has no legal representation in New Jersey, due to this statute in civil law under review. Attorneys wont file criminal complaints for me, because a civil complaints bar is still pending this legislation..
To mention that the sex offenders that are not registered with the state, are also not removed from positions that endanger children. Also, there currently is still the inability to punish, rehabilitate or incarcerate these criminals, that statistically re-offend across the boarder. In addition, there is no legal authority to govern and/or enforce any civility over these criminals and institutions that have protected them.
Please Help.
These reported upon known offenders will be prosecuted and punished when the bars that have protected them, removed.
While New Jersey has always been on the forefront for Child protection and advocacy, Our great state’s laws are missing a large target of criminals, that we as a governing body have the ability to resolve and amend these discrepancies, with this legislation.
This is all so in the effort that our justice system and the agents available within it, are able to perform the civil service that sex crime victims should other wise expect from them and be entitled too.
Thank you for voting this bill to the Budget and Appropriations Committee, a vote 9-0. If you have not voted for this bill yet or signed on to Co-Spenser, please join in. And when the bill comes to the Assembly and the Senate again, for the final vote, I hope you will have extended this invitation to colleges for voting in favor of this urgent and needed amendment to New Jersey Sex Crime Laws.
Thank you,
Michael
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05/26/2011 9:00:00 PM
I also wonder about this. I should think it's about 90%.
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05/26/2011 8:57:00 PM
TIME magazine is reporting that a priest who advises the pope has been caught trying to buy young boys.
http://www.time.com/time/world/article/0,8599,2072613,00.html
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Rachel 05/26/2011 8:35:00 PM
As a survivor of sexual abuse by the clergy while attending boarding school, I am pleased that you outlined the fact that retreat masters were never supervised and had tremendous authority over the nuns who contracted with the order to conduct retreats and the young students who attended the retreats.
Over the past 45 years, I have struggled with getting some resolve with what had happened to me in 1964. Finally, in 2010, I was able to file a complaint with the director of the province and we were able to reach an agreement. Some education transpired, I didn't trust or believe everything I was told, but I got as far as I'm going to get. It is the church's responsibility to get educated; I am not wasting any more of my time on them. They stole is big part of my life and I'm reclaiming the rest of it!
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05/26/2011 8:33:00 PM
A LOT of catholic families are complacent in the issue of abusing priests. HOW? Pressure the boy in the family that 'can't throw a ball' into becoming a priest. Family after family in the catholic faith pressure males they think might be gay into priesthood to avoid any actual dealing with their childs sexuality. The guys become priests, and while most do so successfully, others do not. And not ever does a family step forward accepting any responsibility for helping make a person a trusted figure that they knew has major hidden issues they were hoping to totally avoid.
Out gay people do not target children, they do not need any secrets. Its the 'closeted for the family ones' that are usually the problem.when it comes to children.
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05/26/2011 6:25:00 PM
This child's parents were complicit in his abuse. They should all go to jail.
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05/26/2011 6:25:00 PM
The parents were complicit in this child's abuse. What great straight people they are.
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05/26/2011 6:04:00 PM
Thank you SFWeekly . You have a new fan. Bookmarked you next to NYC Times, Japan Times, BBC, Columbustan Dispatch. Very few are the forums where we victims can pour out our testimony and witnessing and be taken serious. Good God created the Publishing industry.
He knows how to use it right. ha ha ha.
I'm drained and numb from following all this last night. Weird dreams. Depressed no doubt. Awoke too early by a tenant bringing a little rent and a lot of seriously gourmet sushi for breakfast. I've posted some vile words about SanFran since I heard about the circumcision debate. Government, like religion needeth to keep their hands off boys penises. Please forgive my rhetorical zeal San Fran. I truly love ya.
Here in Columbustan we got a front row seat on down and dirty politics when the circus comes to town every two years (and never leaves). I enjoy it to the fullest.
I post my Demand on the internet and twitter daily that;
Pope Bendict XVI must apologize to President Obama for priests sex abuse of American Military orphans like myself, for the abuse of diplomatic privilege to obstruct justice, and for using the military Chaplain Corps as a dumping ground for abusers. Almost as if they are hoping and praying they will end up in Leavenworth.
The Military does a great job of ferreting them out and sending them back to where ever they came from. The church then sends them somewhere else. My abuser is at a church named for the patron Saint of Soldiers, but the Diocese Cathedral ("Politics begins at the Cathedral" Nortons History anthology) has promised to arrest me for trespassing for my big mouth if I ever return to go to Mass. They pay me Musicians Union scale to use my God given Voice in the choir, but the ugly song that God sent me down there to sing they don't even want me to set foot on the Cathedral steps. Slandering me before my professional colleagues. They would rather divorce me from the Body of Christ. Abort my very soul.
It's just that we Military orphans have no other head of our family to represent us but the Commander in Chief. Especially me since I became a Walter Reed casualty because of the abuse. My country is owed reparations a swell as myself. It begins with the apology I demand.
I say this because my only trustworthy confidant Priest was a G.I. and Columbus first Black Priest with a German father, also part Native American. I say this demand now in this manner to honor his service and nominate as being truly worthy of sainthood because he bore witness against the abusers all his career. Kept me on track to become a canonical Catholic in spite of it all.
No small miracle they now want to undo to silence me. Even if it means threatening me with arrest for going to Mass. It aint over. But I sure do need help carrying this heavy Cross all these 33 years alone.
Thanx SF for the hand.
PVT Swafford
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Xyz 05/26/2011 6:04:00 PM
Lol. "Hardon".
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Mary Lu O'Halloran 05/26/2011 4:57:00 PM
Thank you for writing about this issue Peter Jamison. Great job on documenting all the details of McGuire. You highlighted the ongoing pattern of the Catholic Church of covering up the criminal acts of cardinals, bishops,priests,heads of orders-even prestigious orders.Please note most of these people have never been convicted of their criminal acts, nor defrocked. This pattern of long term sexual abuse of children and youth is still going on. Without the media's help in reporting stories like this the average Catholic in the pew and the general world does not believe this happened or still happens. It happens just like the McGuire Case in all its gorey despicable details. We as church stand up all over the world as protectors of life from womb to tomb...that is clearly a lie. We have done a horrible job of keeping children and youth safe....we have not and still do not respect life until we get this right. It is disturbing how many catholics...whether they are the laity or religious still defend the church on this issue and believe anyone who stands up and speaks the truth is "persecuting the church". There is no truthful discussion or dialogue on this issue within the Catholic Church and never has been. You are punished and shunned if you offer a different point of view---like the facts and truth. I hope all who read this story, no matter what your opinion, that you would start to do your own research and educate yourself, read the many books, which are well documented,written on this topic...you will not find in Catholic bookstores...go to bishopaccountability.org or companionsinhope.com Many people fall for the sound bites coming out of their diocese or the Vatican. A perception that is not based on reality or truth. Many people are not looking into the issue and seperating fact from fiction.
Justice Anne Burke, former Chair of the United States Catholic Conference of Bishops Review Board, said it well.... "The TRUTH was the first victim to fall in the sex abuse crisis in the Catholic Church". It still is being held hostage. In Justice Burcke's own words..." truthfulness would have stopped the tragedy of sexual abuse by the clergy; truthfulness would have prevented the erosion of faith for many in the aftermath; truthfulness would have stabilized victims when they reported abuse; and truthfulness would have brought a fuller healing and dignity to the most hurting after going unheard or vilified for years.
The current study out of John Jay College, "The Causes and Context of Sexual Abuse of Minors by Cathloic Priests in the United States, 1950-2010" is deeply flawed and again will not help the thousands of victims who still live in isolation and pain. In the words of many victims/ survivors...the sexual abuse is a violation of their souls which many have termed "soul murder". This report will continue to divide the church. It will create more confusion and loss of creditability in the church and its leadership.The Catholic Church will continue to implode/destroy itself until it stops the coverup and tells the truth...the whole truth and nothing but the truth. "Truthfulness is the "Light of Christ".
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Bjsaccone 05/26/2011 4:50:00 PM
all those connected in any way with the McGuire reports (other priests who must have known about the abuses), Jesuit leaders, bishops in Chicago, San Francisco, Milwaukee archdioceses, should be brought into court and tried for their silence/inactivity. As should have Pope John Paul who was too busy naming new saints (more than 200) and cardinals who would go along with his party line (more than 200) to take action against the abusers during his long reign; his beatification is a joke!
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Larry Monte 05/26/2011 3:48:00 PM
I to was abused by a Catholic priest Robert J. Smith, and can relate to this very powerful story. The current Archbishop of Santa Fe chose to let this man die a catholic priest well tended to by the catholic church. The catholic church truly does not care for us or they would truly act like men of God and take the appropriate and necessary actions to obliterate this pain and agony we must endure
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05/26/2011 3:35:00 PM
I am again shocked and saddened by another case of abuse by a priest that perpetuated decades. As i read through and learned about Fr. McGuire, i have recalled the history of my own abuser, who like McGuire was abusing children since the begining of his priestly career of over thirty years. Other priests and Church officials knew about the crimes my abuser was committing, yet they always looked the other way to protect the priest and their own reputations. It wasn't until some brave parents contacted the police, that there was an attempt to stop this man from abusing more children. The priest's supervisors "lawyered him up" and pleaded to reduced charges in exchange for probation. He continued to abuse children in several states and beyond in the missions in Africa. Over thirty years of passing this priest around, looking the other way, and protecting the priest, not the victim! Noteworthy to the McGuire case, is the now exposed paper trail. Sadly McGuire's history was not unique at all, it was simply exposed!
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JMWHauter 05/26/2011 3:01:00 PM
Travesty after travesty!!! Governor Keating was so correct when he likened the hierarchy and their actions to the Cosa Nostra. Many of us were shocked at the statement initially but case after case continues to point to the validity of the statement. Many of us had the Jesuits on a pedestal in years gone by; another iconic component of the Church falls!
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Norrcon 05/26/2011 1:40:00 PM
I had previously read about Donald McGuire on bishopaccountability.org. This case speaks to the fact that covering up sexual abuse by clergy is systemic. The shameful conduct of those who knew and failed to act to protect victims is revolting. They couldn't even act with basic human decency.My prayers are with the victims. I admire their courage and wish them healing and peace.
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Hjhesemann 05/26/2011 12:28:00 PM
It is just unbelieable the amount of destruction the church has done and most Catholics just act as if it does not exist. I was abused by nuns, who are labeled "quiet victims" in all THIS. It is just Evil.
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Chris 05/26/2011 12:19:00 PM
It makes me physically ill to read about this. When are the Catholic laity going to realize that their contributions are supporting these parasites and either start a new church or rise up and get rid of the bishops, cardinals and popes that are protecting these priests and hiding behind church legaleze and sacrificing children to protect the "church". Cut off their money and they will have to desist.
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Anabaptist abuse survivor 05/26/2011 7:25:00 AM
The Pope and his minions, who refuse to be responsible for priests who bugger boys/rape girls or nuns who rape boys/bugger girls, need to do some serious time. The records of all Catholic sex crimes need to become public knowledge. The Catholic church needs to pay in full for concealing/coddling child sex abusers. Those in authority need to atone for centuries of evil, restore respect to the victims and ensure that potential victims are totally protected from filthy women, dirty men and the ugly authoritarian authorities that 'empower' them. The same thing goes for every other religious racket in which children are abused/sexually abused. No one is above the law just because they belong to retarded religious rackets. In fact, given what we know now, religious people should be among the first groups of people to be suspected of child sex abuse. Family members come first of course because parents rape their own children in staggering numbers but churches and schools need to be considered as serious risks to children too.
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05/26/2011 6:36:00 AM
I wrote this essay years ago. Just cut and paste and change the name of the town, diocese or country. When will it stop.
War Tactics Should Be Applied to Abusers and the Lying Schmucks That Offered Protection
By Mike Ference
412-233-5491
mike@ferencemarketing.com
Every day brings new evidence that we no longer live in a civilized and principled society. The worst part, it usually concerns another case of sexual misconduct involving a Catholic priest, young children and a church hierarchy that helped to cover up the case.
The recently unveiled case of John Wellinger, a former Catholic priest in the Pittsburgh Diocese, suggests that a regime change is the only solution in the Catholic Church. In 1990, I started my own investigation of Wellinger, just months after his alleged abuse of an 11-year-old altar boy at Holy Spirit Church in West Mifflin, PA and five years before Bishop Donald Wuerl got wind of it. I eventually took my evidence to the PA State Police, who agreed that an investigation was warranted. They notified the West Mifflin police, or at least I was told that — and soon thereafter Fr. Wellinger was transferred. Coincidence? I wouldn’t bet the farm. How is it that a nobody such as myself can manage to unearth information about a suspected abusive priest 14 years before the Pittsburgh Diocese announces that a crime has been committed in the Pittsburgh Catholic.
To be sure, media pressure and public outrage have inspired displays of contrition from members of the church hierarchy. But as more and more cases of abuse — and cover-up — come to light, one begins to wonder whether such displays should be considered any more trustworthy than those of, say, Saddam Hussein.
So — what is to be done? Given the level of wreckage and anguish caused in the lives of so many people, it seems appropriate to look to the war on terror for a model strategy.
A first prong of attack might involve a Special Forces unit made up of highly skilled and trained military personnel capable of tracking down and obtaining confessions from any priest accused of acts of sexual abuse against children. If rights are violated, if military personnel sometimes go a little too far, so be it. The Catholic Church had ample opportunity to fess up and repent. Those incapable of civilized behavior shouldn’t expect the rights and privileges of civilization.
A deck of cards can be created to help identify hard-to-find priests as well as the disgraceful church leaders who permitted, and in essence, condoned the sexual abuse of young children. Photos of the most deviant and reprehensible church officials accompanied by a list of their offenses will encourage us all to do our patriotic duty in helping the authorities track down suspected priest-terrorists or at least be able to identify the culprits as they come and go freely because their sins where covered up and the time to criminally prosecute has expired.
Another option would be to divide the nation into territories. A color-code warning system would be established, alerting parents about abusive priests being transferred into their respective regions. Depending on the designated color for a particular region, parents would know whether their children should serve at Mass, go on field trips, or even attend Catholic school that day.
To aid this unique war on terror, a pool of money should be collected, not involuntarily from taxpayers, but voluntarily from those decent human beings who believe crimes committed against our children are sins that God takes very seriously. Some of the funds raised could then be turned into outrageously tempting reward sums for information leading to the capture of our targeted criminals. Once the rogue clerics have been imprisoned and forced to talk, I recommend that their confessions be given to someone like Steven Spielberg or George Romero. Hollywood writers and producers could create a blockbuster movie like Roots or Schindler’s List to serve as a bitter reminder that these crimes should never again be permitted to occur. Tom Savini could be hired to recreate the horror on the faces of child actors chosen to play parts.
Proceeds from the movie could go to victims of abuse and their families. And no matter how old the crime, compensation would be available. There should be no statute of limitations when the rights of children have been violated by those who lived much of their adult lives perched on a pedestal heightened by the trust of innocent and vulnerable believers. In fact, I would extend compensation to the second and perhaps even third generation of sufferers. It would certainly include siblings denied the experience of growing up with a brother or sister untraumatized by such abuse. And since crimes of abuse tend to echo, it would extend to the victims of the victims as well.
If all else fails, is it any less rational to declare war on the Catholic Church as part of a war on child abuse than it was to declare war on Iraq (which had nothing to do with 9/11 or Al-Qaeda and apparently had no weapons of mass destruction) as part of a war on terror? How many innocent children have been verifiably lost to this menace — and how many more will be lost if we don’t make a preemptive strike?
As horrific as sexual abuse by priests may be, the perpetrators might merit a more forgiving place if only their superiors had the courage to do the right thing. For a few, counseling and close supervision might have been enough to prevent future abuses. Others clearly required something more intensive — a mental hospital or a prison.
But repeated abuse, as well as willfully hiding the crimes and the criminals — as far as I can see, this brings us much closer to the realm of mortal sin. And the sinners include not just the church hierarchy, but also attorneys who ill-advised parents not to buck the system and take on the Catholic Church, or may even have provided inside information to thwart legitimate cases against the church, law enforcement officials who may have thought it best to warn church officials of pending investigations, and janitors, housekeepers, teachers, and employees of the Catholic Church who kept silent because of concerns about a paycheck, a 401K, a pension, or a fear of standing up to church authorities. God has a place for everyone — and if you abuse children or protect the abusers of children, we can only hope that your place is called hell.
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05/26/2011 5:58:00 AM
why do we allow them to carry on , today it is somebodies kid tomorrow it will be ours . How are we expected to live a sin free life when the preacher are the breaching souls here .
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05/26/2011 4:34:00 AM
Thank you for writing this in-depth story about how a predator priest is enabled and empowered to sexually abuse so many kids.
There are so many, many sad and heart wrenching stories of kids being used and abused by those who claim to speak for god. And this abuse and the coverup of these crimes is still going on today.
Victims have called it soul murder. Men who are in their 80's are just now able to come forward and even speak of their abuse.
..And then just this week, the US bishop release their new John Jay Report.. that almost makes a person laugh if it wasn't so sad,
They are incapable of taking responsibility for their actions of protecting the predator priests rather than protecting the innocent children. They just do not care.
To those victims who are still out there, afraid to speak up because you feel weird, guilty, embarrassed, and blame.... know that you are not alone. Know that you are not weird, know that it was NOT your fault. You were a child..!!
Keep in mind your silence only hurts, and by speaking up there is a chance for healing, exposing the truth, and therefore protecting others.
Judy Jones, SNAP Midwest Associate Director, 636-433-2511
snapjudy@gmail.com
"Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests" and all clergy
http://www.snapnetwork.org/
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Kellogs68 05/26/2011 4:13:00 AM
Why are they allowed to be above the law? Why are the priests that know about CRIMINAL acts not subject to the law as well? The fact that victims are speaking out will hopefully bring about some accountability.
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Margaret 05/26/2011 4:06:00 AM
This piece underscores the importance and value of civil lawsuits in bringing forth documentation that would otherwise remain hidden from public knowledge. The extent of documentation of McGuire's known and suspected child sexual abuse is stunning, particularly since Jesuit officials would have knowingly kept it under wraps if at all possible. It is completely understandable why victims groups remain skeptical of pronouncements by church leaders that "there is nothing in our files" or "this is the first complaint ever about this cleric".
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05/26/2011 4:01:00 AM
Thank you for sharing your story..
Judy Jones, SNAP Midwest Associate Director, 636-433-2511
snapjudy@gmail.com
"Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests"
http://columbustruth.org/
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05/26/2011 3:52:00 AM
We were there in Venice and we did a SNAP press event to reach out to victims who were abused by Father William Wert, who had been quietly moved to Florida because he had abused a boy elsewhere. Child predators can have many, many victims.
The church hierarchy will never hold themselves accountable for covering up sex crimes against innocent kids.
There is only one way to get these men stopped. Outside law enforcement and prosecutors need to take heed and investigate every single catholic diocese in the world, including the diocese of Venice. There is no other way to get this life long harmful abuse stopped.
Judy Jones, SNAP Midwest Associate Director, 636-433-2511
snapjudy@gmail.com
"Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests"
http://www.snapnetwork.org/
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Dreamk10000 05/26/2011 3:50:00 AM
As a victim of priest abuse by Monsignor Albert Berube
While attending St. Anthony's Elementary School in the 60's in New Bedford, Mass I know firsthand how men in power hide the sickest of their members which of course says how sick they are too. They are not subject to ever be anything but a pedophile. My predator priest had a dark side that was frightening.....understandable they cannot tolerate their own repulsive self
Speak your truth.don't mince words! All of you evil f...s
Will pay with your soul for the crimes you commit against children. Who gives a rats ass about you. If you turned your back on a child you suck.
Speak up,speak loud, speak the truth....all children need our protection from pedophiles that infiltrate our society.
If you prey on a child......you don't get q life!!
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05/26/2011 3:38:00 AM
Thank You Mike that was fascinating.
The Crucified Christ has already passed judgement.
"In as much as you have done it to the least of these my brethren you have done it to me"
His Cross is for the victims of theocratic obstructions of Justice and every vile abuse by religious authorities. They have done to us as they did it to him.
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Mike Fenske 05/26/2011 3:18:00 AM
What follows is the sentencing statement of Judge Rebecca Pallmeyer (US District Court, Northern District of Illinois) regarding Daniel McGuire. It is just, brilliant and obviously very heartfelt. I excerpted the following from the trial transcript any typos and formatting issues are mine and occurred fitting the PDF to this space.
"Well, I have heard from many of you here today and at the trial. I certainly heard testimony at that time. I appreciate the words I heard from counsel and also from Mr. McGuire.
A comment about some of the comments from the witnesses who came forward.
I know that the Christian God, the Christian faith teaches grace and forgiveness and mercy. And I know some of you were able to express that your desire and hope that Father McGuire, the Father to you, would some day express regret and remorse. He would apologize. I am sorry for your sake that that appears not to have happened.
I don’t here dispense divine grace. I here dispense human justice.
And I am struck in considering the issues before me at how this man was held on a pedestal over the years, revered around the world, loved by many witnesses on both sides of the case, who obviously thought extremely highly of him. He is credited with bringing hundreds, maybe thousands, of human beings to faith.
And if there is any more poignant expression of respect, I don’t know what it is, that so many parents trusted this man with the finest gifts God ever gave them, their children.
You know this and understand this, Mr. McGuire. Probably as a priest you know as well as anybody, those who loved you and looked up to you, even in this trial, called you “Father.” They trusted you with that important gift, and all of us are responsible for those gifts.
All of us—whether we are parents, aunts, uncles, friends, strangers—all of us are responsible for children. And our responsibility, as human beings and adults, for children is what makes this crime so terribly wounding. There is no question that your role was such that you made contributions that many people valued. You abused that role. You abused their faith. You abused the confidence that people showed in you, the faith that they had in you.
What you did over so many years to so many victims—we really will never know how many—beyond this vile, physical abuse is the kind of mental torture that these individuals, some of them, will struggle with for many years to come. You were able in the cruelest and really most unimaginably selfish way to tell a bunch of young boys that something was wrong with them. And some of them still appear to believe it and are struggling with counseling and therapy.
The parents who feel guilt and responsibility about what happened, the brothers and sisters who suffer the wounds because of their siblings’ pain, you managed to inject guilt and shame into these individuals and into their families.
You victimized them in the most fundamental way: the loss of innocence; the loss of self-confidence; loss of trust; loss of self-respect; for some of them, the loss of their families; loss of their, in some cases, sexual desire, sexual interest, confidence in themselves as sexual human beings. You robbed them of all those things. I appreciate that you will shed tears. I hope some moment they will be tears of regret, because what has happened to some of these young people really can’t be paid back. The guideline sentence range here calls for a sentence between 210 and 262 months. I am free under Section 3553 to impose a sentence that’s greater or lesser than the guidelines, so long as I believe that it’s reasonable and so long as I believe that it addresses the considerations identified in that statute of promoting respect for the law, a just punishment, and reflects the seriousness of the offense.
I have imposed sentences for many, many crimes.
Often in this courtroom it’s for things like drug distribution, drug sales to individuals who I think were pretty willing to purchase the drugs.
This is a situation where I am imposing a sentence on somebody who committed a crime on young people who really couldn’t say no and certainly didn’t want it. They didn’t ask for it.
I think a sentence of 262 months is really not long enough to address the wrongdoing here. I am imposing a sentence of 300 months, 180 months on Count I followed by 120 months on Count II to run consecutively.
I realize, Mr. McGuire, that as you face the sunset, it may very well be that you won’t survive your time in custody. I impose this sentence without concern that that’s the wrong thing to do under these circumstances. These individuals who are here and so many others have suffered, so many others who may never have come forward, who may be frustrated by the lack of action, who may be angry by the fact that their own voices weren’t heard, or feel a sense of guilt and responsibility because they couldn’t or didn’t speak up.
And a message to anybody else who thinks it’s okay to abuse a position of power, of respect, of love, of reverence, to victimize a young person, I want any such person to know that the system of justice—and at least this judge personally—finds it completely abhorrent, abhorrent, unacceptable and, if you will forgive me, a very, very serious sin.
The period of incarceration will be followed by supervised release of three years on each of Counts I and II, those to run concurrently.
The conditions of supervised release would be the standard ones: that Mr. McGuire, should he complete his sentence in his lifetime, would report to the probation office within 72 hours of his release from custody. During that period, not commit an offense of any kind, refrain from any unlawful use of controlled substances, submit to drug testing and treatment at the direction of the probation officer, not possess a firearm or destructive device, and submit to the collection of a DNA sample. Additional conditions will require that the defendant pay any financial penalty. In this case there is a $200 special assessment.
I am also going to impose a fine of $5,000, well below the guideline range in this case.
As a condition of supervised release, the defendant will not incur any new credit charges or open additional lines of credit and will perform community service if he is unemployed for as much as 60 days during the period of supervised release.
I am also going to direct that the defendant comply with the requirements of the computer and Internet monitoring program as administered by the probation officer; register
with the state sex offender registration agency in any state where he resides; and not possess a computer, camera, or any access to the Internet. I will also direct that he not possess or have under his control or possession any pornographic materials and that he not have contact with any person under the age of 18 ever, unless he is in the presence of a responsible adult. His employment will be restricted to the district and division where he resides or is supervised, unless there is approval for outside employment by the probation officer. He will provide the probation officer with copies of telephone bills, credit card statements, and financial services; and participate in mental-health and sex-offender treatment at the direction of the probation officer. I will, of course, recommend that Mr. McGuire be placed in a facility in which he can get comprehensive medical treatment and care. He is entitled to the services of the physicians available through the Bureau of Prisons, just as any prisoner would be. And I am confident that he will receive the care that he needs while he is incarcerated. He does suffer from a number of physical difficulties. I would observe, first, that, although those difficulties, that there are many, none of them are rare or unusual, and all are subject to treatment within the Bureau of Prisons.I would note further that, as Mr. McGuire himself told me a moment ago, he has suffered from those conditions for many years. And during those many years, I have heard— I heard, not only during the trial but even today, during the many years in which Mr. McGuire suffered from these serious maladies, he nevertheless showed great energy and strength. I am confident that he will receive the treatment that he needs while in custody and will recommend that he be placed in a facility where that’s possible.
I also want to review Mr. McGuire’s appeal rights. Sir, you are entitled to take an appeal from my sentence. If you wish to do so, you should file your notice of appeal within ten days. If you are unable to file a notice of appeal, the court clerk will file a notice on your behalf at your request."
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Drmichunter 05/26/2011 2:51:00 AM
I'm glad this issue is getting attention, too many victims have been ignored for too long. Dr. Mic Hunter (author of Abused Boys: The Neglected Victims Of Sexual Abuse)
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05/26/2011 2:33:00 AM
unbelievably painful...it makes me want to curl up and die... when I hear others tell of their abuse it makes my soul turn black and I feel as the abuse that I endured just happened yesterday
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Former Catholic 05/26/2011 2:18:00 AM
God will judge the priests for what they have done to the faith of these vulonerable children and their famiies and countless others. On this earth they should also be judged by the laws of this land. The catholic church should lose their nonproit status
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ROBERT BARAT KEANE 05/26/2011 2:17:00 AM
IT WAS DOSTOEVSKY WHO WROTE:
"THERE MUST BE NO MORE OF THIS, MONKS,
NO MORE TORTURE OF CHILDREN;
RISE UP AND PREACH THAT . . .
MAKE HASTE, MAKE HASTE, MAKE HASTE"
AND HE ADDED:
"WOE TO HIM WHO OFFENDS A CHILD."
IT SADDENS ME, AS ONE TAUGHT BY JESUITS,
AND AN ADMIRER OF THEM FOR MORE THAN 70 YEARS,
TO FIND THEM SO BEFOULED FOR PLAYING
ANY ROLE AT ALL IN THIS DREADFUL TRAGEDY.
SHAME ON THE GUILTY ONES IN THE SOCIETY OF JESUS.
FOR THEY HAVE SHAMED OUR BELOVED CHURCH.
ROBERT BARAT KEANE
ORMOND BEACH, FLORIDA
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Mj 05/26/2011 2:01:00 AM
It makes me very sad and angry to read another story of a pedophile priest being allowed to continue finding more victims while his superior keep him in ministry and his secrets hidden. Shame on the Jesuits involved ....... It is why I can no longer attend what was once my church. I no longer have faith in it......
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Annew1 05/26/2011 2:01:00 AM
There's a handy little"principle" that ensures that religious will never stop covering up what their fellow clergy are doing - it's called "giving scandal." Catholics are taught never to repeat bad things about priests - that in fact sullying the representative of God and the church on earth is the mortal sin of sacrilege. This is drummed into one's head from confirmation on, but hardly needs to be spoken of by either clergy or laymen, because adults don't forget the lesson. They're terrified of committing it - and their terror is conveyed to any child that threatens to speak openly of abuse. It's a very tidy little closed system that leaves no one with a way out.
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05/26/2011 1:24:00 AM
As a Catholic physician who has met many women and men who have been sexually abused as children by priests in the Roman Catholic Church, this story, about the Jesuits allowing this priest to continue to abuse children for years, saddens and amazes me.
I have respected the Jesuits for teaching ideals, such as the importance of social justice and doing all for the greater glory of God.
I believe that all adults need to be mandatory reporters to police of any suspected case of the sexual abuse of children. Sexual abuse is a crime. Predator priests are criminals.
I believe that the Roman Catholic Church leaders must no longer be allowed to be above the law. It is not the job of the Pope or bishops or superiors of religious orders to investigate suspected crimes. It is the job of the police to investigate suspected crimes.
The culture of the Roman Catholic Church is very unhealthy. To have celibate men, who have never had the responsibility of raising children of their own, calling all the shots, is a recipe for disaster. These men have very limited life experience. Their arrogance and immaturity is blocking many of them from being open to listen and respect the experiences of women and men and children who have been abused.
The sexual abuse of children by priests IS a worldwide disaster, which continues because the Pope and other leaders of the hierarchy are allowing it to continue.
It is tragic to see an institution use its moral authority to exploit those who wish to give God their all. In reality, we can desire to give God our all in every walk of life, whether we are married or single. We all have a vocation in life, not just nuns and priests.
Mandatory celibacy promotes psychosexual immaturity in its priests and nuns and increases the power and control of the Church over these lives. Mandatory celibacy is not a gift from God, it is a forced requirement of a Church.
I think the Church will be healthier when there is the freedom for priests to marry and live more normal lives, and where women are respected as equals for God's greater glory.
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05/26/2011 1:06:00 AM
I say SUE the Jesuit Order, that Archdiocese, Holy See alone for "damages"
Seize assets, MAKE CHURCH PAY DEARLY.
NO excuses, Time to humble the Holy See BIG Time.
End this Coverup NOW.
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Frank Douglas 05/26/2011 1:04:00 AM
This is standard operating procedure within the church. Priests first, even if they rape kids.
Women second. Kids third. Kids are third because they don't contribute money and they can be easily intimidated (if you tell anyone about our special relationship, i.e, the fact that I stuck my penis up your behind, you will go to hell.)
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05/26/2011 12:48:00 AM
Thank you Brother Nicholas
Don't pawn anything for my settlement like your name sake helped that poor farmer get rid of his 3 daughters. I know how desperate the farmer was . I've had step daughters.
I demand Pope Benedict XVI apologize to President O"Bama for sex abuse of military orphans like me. My country will heal and provide all my needs for repair after that. I will not settle for less because they have used my poverty and isolation to deny me justice.
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05/26/2011 12:36:00 AM
Thank you for your testimony brother.. I believe you. Love you for your suffering and witness for the true Cross. Jesus suffered through the same maneuvers when they obstructed justice to such extreme thy could only silence him by extrajudicial assassination. We victims of priests have insight into the plot line of the Gospel story no church can confess.
Rest assured the suicided victims you know are blessed together with him.
Perhaps to return with him, when he comes to take vengeance for those of US that remain.
The Cross belongs to US. It is against the abusers of religion.
Bless you brother.
AUS AUS AUS!
Wish i was an Aussie sometimes.
(I'm on twitter as StevenStreets)
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Santa Claus 05/26/2011 12:25:00 AM
I believe the Vatican's recent proposal regarding child abuse by clergy, that it will undertake "preparation work for a circular... on the guidelines to offer a coordinated program" is extraordinarily inadequate -- far too little remedy, and far too late.
I am a child advocate, consecrated Bishop, and Christian Monk, and have been taking Pope Benedict XVI to task for what I observe is the Pope’s moral failure, regarding the issue of child abuse by clergy I believe the Pope should resign, as permitted by Roman Catholic Code of Canon Law 332 S2.
It appears that, according to the Roman Catholic Catechism, the Pope may have committed the mortal sin of pride and may burn in Hell for eternity (see TheSanta dot im). The Pope clearly has placed his interests and those of his clergy, the Vatican, and the Catholic Church above the needs of vulnerable children and his parishioners.
I pray that the Pope will make the courageous decision to issue a Papal Edict or Papal Bull -- directing all Roman Catholic clergy to immediately report all cases of suspected and confirmed instances of child abuse by clergy to the appropriate governing authorities for criminal investigation and ensuring the full cooperation of the Roman Catholic Church with those investigations and, that the Pope will swiftly and permanently laicize (dismiss), by decree, all clergy who have been found guilty of child abuse.
Pope Benedict XVI (then Ratzinger) made a radio address more than 4 decades ago in 1969 (translated): “From today’s crisis, a church will emerge tomorrow that will have lost a great deal. She will be small and to a large extent she will have to start from the beginning. She will no longer be able to fill many of the buildings created in her period of great splendor. Because of the smaller number of her followers she will lose many of her privileges in society… It will make her poor and a church of the little people… All this will require time. The process will be slow and painful.”
It is no wonder why many people have so little faith in the Church at a time when it would seem the hierarchy of the Church does not practice what it professes are its own Christian principles and catechism. I wonder how the Pope, who praises the strength and fortitude of Christ, who submitted himself to a governing authority and suffered crucifixion, can fail to recognize the parallel situation that exists in the Church today.
Matthew 25:40 reads: “And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.”
In my opinion, the Pope has a very clear choice: (1) to continue to commit the sin of pride against vulnerable children, parishioners, and governing authority and burn in Hell for eternity, or, instead, (2) to elect to protect the millions of children in his care, address what the Pope has called “the sin inside the church,” identify and remove child abusers from the Church’s midst, cooperate with their prosecution by governing authorities, and get them treatment, compensate victims of abuse, restore faith in the Roman Catholic Church (and Christianity in general), set a positive example for other denominations suffering from similar child abuse issues, repent, reconcile, and do penance.
I believe the Pope’s issuing an Edit or Bull would demonstrate his intent to resolve the issue of child abuse by clergy and would confirm, by decisive action, his commitment to protect all children entrusted to his care, above and beyond the Pope’s evident and longstanding concern for the perceived needs of his clergy, the Vatican, the Roman Catholic Church, and the Pope, himself. The time to do that is now.
The Rt. Rev. Santa Claus, OAC
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05/26/2011 12:18:00 AM
Whoever said i sounded like my abuser. I hope you enjoy his fellowship in the next life.
You get to share the same hot tub with him. My birth fathers Navy busted him out when he tried to prey on vulnerable Sailors as a Chaplain.
I wont be there with any of you. The rest of my eyewitness testimony can be followed on twitter as Steven Streets, the name my Air Force mom gave me before she died taking the military secrecy of my nativity to the grave like "A Star with No Name".
Good thing God gave me thicker skin than you can imagine and a Great Uncle out there in California. From the family known as the family that built California uncle Mack Sennet (Sinnot) who put the Hollywoodland sign on the hill. The "King of Comedy". A sense of humor is a great help through all of this for me.
Go ahead.... make me laugh.
Tuba Mirum Spargens Sonum per Sepulchra Regionum
Name that tune...if you have such a gift of discernment of Spirit.
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Maryjane 05/26/2011 12:15:00 AM
This is a tragic and devastating story in the never ending chapter of the Catholic Church's complicity in aiding and abetting sexual abuse of our children. Thank God these families are taking action. Maybe this case will finally open the eyes of the vicars of christ and real changes will be made. They've already spent billions of dollars defending or settling such cases and received the worst possible press on earth yet their arrogance continues. My guess is they won't stop until every last Catholic stops supporting them on Sunday morning. They manage to pull the wool over the eyes of those who haven't experienced their betrayal first hand and like it or not, those sheep have an extended hand in perpetuating the crimes.
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Mark (Saint Michael justice) 05/25/2011 11:58:00 PM
Whoever posted this comment sounds like a pedophile comaining for being caught... Please report Steven Streets to authorities....
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Mark 05/25/2011 11:44:00 PM
There is an unbroken line of thousands of these cases that have been referred
to the Vatican in the past 20 years--all covered up by team Woytla-Ratzinger,
two popes. And now Pope Ratzinger wants to put Woytla on the fast track
to canonization before all the dirty linen comes out. The canonization
express needs to be derailed, NOW! Hell, they would canonize these
pedophiles if they had half a chance. Are Catholics going to snooze
all through this process? Probably.....
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Mark ( in Gods hands) 05/25/2011 11:41:00 PM
I can tell by your contradictory statement veritas that you are who we as survivors go up against to get justice and protect children.... I know justice belongs to God.... We commit suicide from these acts against us and worse live a life in torture of self destruction from those who defiled and murdered our souls.... As well as people like you who hide, move, and cover up these pedophiles so do your God given job and protect the church... We as survivors fear it to be more than 10% because of cover ups and unreported and moved pedophiles... My perpetrators are a line of cover ups going all the way to the Vatican causing an archbishop of St. Louis Burke to be promoted to being one of eight canon lawyers in the world for the Vatican because the St louis archdiocese does such a good job of covering up pedophiles.... Get your head out of your keister Veritas....
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Veritas 05/25/2011 11:38:00 PM
Uh...how does this reply to my post?
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Xavier College KEW 05/25/2011 11:34:00 PM
I was raped by a Jesuit priest at the age of 11 on school grounds durring school hours. The impact on my life has been devastating and a number of the boys I went to school with have suicided. A Jesuit apparently once admitted that there was a "dark era" at the school in the 1970's. It was not until a kid got taken away from school in an ambulance after being bashed by Fr Byrne SJ did the superiors bother to do any about him. I admire those survivors and supporters and who come forward and demand the church and its orders for disclosure through the USA civil legal system. There is little such courage nor vehicle for justice here in Australia. I believe the resultant ongoing unresolved situation leds to fear and suspision is perpetuated in the community, children are left at risk and society as a whole morally digresses. If any one has any information about sexual assault or the coverup thereof by Jesuits, no matter how insignificant or historical it may seem - please report it to the police and anyone deeply affected by this horrendous scourge on the soul of humanity to get help. Contact Survivors Network for those Abused by Preist.