In the words of Chef from South Park, “There is a time and place for everything, and it's called college.” They say that college is where we send our youths to find themselves. I became an activist in college, and I thought law school was the natural next step. Sex educator Tristan Taormino had a similar trajectory. Taormino was in town recently for OpenSF, a nonmongamy conference. I am always interested in how people become sex educators, sex workers, sex activists, and sex authors, but what I learned was that Taormino's career was not one she planned on.