http://charity.sfgov.orgPlanning Director John RahaimWhile gestures of extreme kindness toward the boss may not earn one raises or promotions -- they usually can't hurt. Last year, after Planning Director John Rahaim was famously burned out of the the Dennis T. Sullivan Memorial Fire Chief's Home, longtime city planner Kelley Amdur offered him a rent-free stay in a condo owned by her father -- and he accepted. Last week, Rahaim, who says he lived in the condo for about a month, announced Amdur h